My lack of electricity due to Hurricane Earl meant that I had absolutely no idea that this drama was taking place, and with one of the dearest people I know. I had to read the thread from scratch today. When I got to the place that it was certain that she would get the kidney, I burst into tears of joy![IHD has a history of giving me these emotional extremes at very inappropriate times - I am here at work in the Tourist Information Booth!]I am so happy, overjoyed, elated. My caring thoughts and prayers are with you all the way.