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« Reply #25 on: March 20, 2009, 05:33:39 PM »
Mimi I haven't been on in a while and I missed your post. But I am so sorry to hear about what is going on. You guys are in my prayers. I hope all goes smoothly. Keep us updated.
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Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the land.
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« Reply #26 on: March 20, 2009, 11:43:58 PM »
 :grouphug; Sorry about the troubles Mimi!
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
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Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
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« Reply #27 on: March 31, 2009, 06:50:13 PM »
Hi Gang:
Just a note and a prayer request.  Cindy and Ron cannot agree
on how to split everything.  They  go before the judge on Friday.
Ron is getting more antsy and ugly as each day goes on.On Sunday morning Cindy was up at 5 am seeing about our new puppy.  It was thundering, lightening, and pouring rain.  She glanced out of the kitchen window and Ron was walking around
in the backyard with my youngest grandson's shotgun in his
hands.  It frightened her to death and she quickly locked the
back door and called 911.   The  police asked him what he was
doing and he said he was going to shoot a crow that had been getting the bird seed.  As you can see things are getting worse.I ask for your prayers that we all get through this alive and that there can be a fair settlement decided on.
I pray that all of you are doing OK and know that I am praying for all of you and that I love you.

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« Reply #28 on: March 31, 2009, 07:11:44 PM »
 :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #29 on: March 31, 2009, 07:23:22 PM »
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Gortex clotted off Thanksgiving Week of 2007, was unclotted and promptly clotted off 1/2 hour later so Permacath Rt chest.
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Aug 5, 08, trained NxStage and Home on 9/3/2008.
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« Reply #30 on: March 31, 2009, 11:16:38 PM »
We love you too Mimi and miss you. Praying this is all resolved swiftly and fairly and you all come through it as well as you can.  I'm sure your faith will give you strength. :grouphug;
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« Reply #31 on: April 01, 2009, 03:30:53 AM »
maybe after she adjusts to her single life she will feel that she is doing the right things -
he does not sound like a very nicer person
she can do better
and I hope she knows it
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« Reply #32 on: April 01, 2009, 05:27:23 AM »
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Mimi you all have to be careful.  Birds dont eat at night and especialy in thunder and rain??  I would consider hiding the shells for all your guns.  Best safe then sorry.
I am saddened you are having to go through this.
Im my thoughts and prayers.
 :cuddle; :grouphug;
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« Reply #33 on: April 01, 2009, 10:25:23 AM »

 ??? Yikes!

Mimi, I hope things get resolved soon. It sounds frightening. Please take care.  :cuddle;
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
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« Reply #34 on: April 01, 2009, 11:04:07 AM »
I'll keep you all in my prayers for resolution, safety, and agreement.  We miss you  :grouphug;
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« Reply #35 on: April 02, 2009, 01:11:37 PM »
aaawww Mimi   :cuddle;  I do hope things do not get any "worser", bless you and your family!   
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« Reply #36 on: April 02, 2009, 01:42:21 PM »
Mimi :grouphug;
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« Reply #37 on: April 02, 2009, 08:59:52 PM »
i miss you too  :grouphug;
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« Reply #38 on: April 28, 2009, 11:29:37 PM »
Hi everyone, wanted to let you know what's going on here.
The divorce is almost final.   Cindy got the house, and
he has to pay the housenote every month.  Plus she will
get alimony, enough that she can scrape by on.  Also she will get some medical assistance plus he has to keep some insurance up on the house and himself, in case he dies before she does.
All hell broke loose tonight so he will be leaving tomorrow or
she will get a restraining order.  I will be disconnecting this
puter tonight and sitting it in the hall so he can take it with him.
But my son called today and said he will buy me another computer.  So hopefully I will be back in 2 or 3 weeks.
Take care of yourselves and know that I will be thinking of you all and praying for you, too.
Until we meet again.
 
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« Reply #39 on: April 28, 2009, 11:31:30 PM »

You are missed Mimi - come back as soon as you can!  :waving;
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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« Reply #40 on: April 28, 2009, 11:54:42 PM »
Miss you Mimi, please take care till you get back. Good luck to you and your family, God Bless all of you  :thumbup;
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« Reply #41 on: April 29, 2009, 05:04:14 AM »
I'm looking forward to seeing you back on here Mimi and I hope that life for Cindy and the rest of your family will settle down and become more peaceful.
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Home haemo 1980-1985 (self-cannulated with 15 gauge sharps)
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New upper-arm fistula April 2008
Uldall-Cook catheter inserted May 2008
Haemo-dialysis, self care unit June 2008
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« Reply #42 on: April 29, 2009, 05:11:45 AM »
Please take care, Mimi.  We will all be waiting anxiously for your return. 
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« Reply #43 on: April 29, 2009, 06:53:55 AM »
We miss you  :cuddle;  It is good that things are getting finalized.  Your daughter can start to move forward.  Take good care of yourself and we will be waiting for you.
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« Reply #44 on: May 07, 2009, 10:37:48 AM »
Wow!  The challenges that we have to face in life!!  Mimi, you are such a caring person.  I am sorry that you have had to go through this kind of experience.  I can't wait until everything is settled and you are with us again.
Be assured of my caring thoughts and prayers.  take care of yourself. :cuddle;
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« Reply #45 on: July 10, 2009, 11:33:32 PM »
Hi Everyone:   Sorry to be so long checking in.  I do hope you are all OK.  Cindy and I have just gotten back from Memphis.  We had to go up to see about Cindy's best friend since Jr. High.  She had breast cancer 15 years ago and 3 weeks ago she was diagnosed with bone cancer.   She is truly like a member of our family.  We are trying to help her decide some things since she was divorced 2 years ago and her parents and brother have passed on.  She has 2 grown sons but they are not much help at all.  Her name is Laura and I ask for your prayers for her.
As I said in my last update, the divorce is final and things are settling down here, finally.   Have to go to all my Drs. next week to find out how my body is doing.  It's been a hard roe to hoe but thankfully it is almost finished.
Love to alll of U.  Talk later.
 
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« Reply #46 on: July 10, 2009, 11:36:03 PM »
Welcome back Mimi! :cheer:
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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« Reply #47 on: July 10, 2009, 11:56:31 PM »
 :waving; Mimi  :welcomesign; back
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« Reply #48 on: July 11, 2009, 12:41:25 AM »
Good to have you back, I hope things are settling down for you now.  Laura will be in my prayers.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #49 on: July 11, 2009, 04:02:30 AM »
Great to have you back, Mimi!   :waving;
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