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« on: February 23, 2009, 11:19:17 PM »
Hi Guys............Just wanted to let you all know what is happening at my house. 
My daughter Cindy has filed for divorce from her husband.  We are all in shock
and soooo stressed out.  I don't know how this is going to work out and how we are going to make it financially.  I may not be on line as much for he has refused to pay  the telephone bill, my youngest grandson paid it this month and he has already had the cable turned off.  I am afraid we are in for some bitter times.  He
is threatening to drag it out for as long as possible.  Please everyone, say a prayer
for us.  My thoughts and prayers will be with you all and please take care of yourselves.

Love, Mimi



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« Reply #1 on: February 23, 2009, 11:20:59 PM »
 :grouphug; So sorry to hear this. I hope things don't get too bad. Please keep in touch when you can.
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« Reply #2 on: February 23, 2009, 11:31:29 PM »
So sorry to hear this Mimi, I pray you all we be OK  :grouphug;
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« Reply #3 on: February 23, 2009, 11:38:54 PM »
Really sorry to hear this, Mimi.  My caring thoughts and prayers are with you that this will all work out for the best in the end.  :cuddle; 
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« Reply #4 on: February 24, 2009, 03:32:20 AM »
Oh, Mimi,

Sorry to read this.  Will be praying for
you and all of your family, that this will
all go smoothly and not cause alot of
stress for you all.
You will be in my thoughts,

Anne
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« Reply #5 on: February 24, 2009, 05:18:47 AM »
Sounds like he is an Ass Hole!  I think she is doing the right thing.  She better go get a job or go to school to get a job.  She doesn't need that boat anchor around the rest of your lives.  Support her in her decision and get through this.

There are support lawyers for free if you don't have income.  You probably live in a community property state and she will get half plus child support.  He will get to see the kids as he should, he is their father.  Try to remember to put the kids first.

Divorce sucks and I think it is an action of last resort, but sometimes for the best in the long run.
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« Reply #6 on: February 24, 2009, 05:24:58 AM »
Oh Mimi sorry to read this.
You will be in my thoughts and i hope for the best outcome for all involved.

We will be here when you can get back to us.
 :cuddle;
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« Reply #7 on: February 24, 2009, 06:40:36 AM »
Mimi, I am sorry for all of you.   We were blind sided with the same situation 2 years ago and it is still a mess.  Some one once told me "little kids, little problems--big kids, big problems"  They were right.  You can't just stick a bandaid on grown childrens troubles and fix them.  The heartache is horrible and it is hard to see your child suffer (and grandchildren).  I will keep all of you in my prayers.   Let us know how you are when you can   :grouphug;
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« Reply #8 on: February 24, 2009, 07:29:51 AM »
Paris is so right --- a trip to Just a Buck will not save this problem
good luck to you and I will pray
I know this is a hard time
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« Reply #9 on: February 24, 2009, 12:09:17 PM »
Oh Mimi you've always been so loving and caring to all of us, I am so sorry to read what is happening to you and those who you love.  Of course I will keep you all in my thoughts.  I hope it isn't all as bad as you fear.  :cuddle;
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« Reply #10 on: February 24, 2009, 01:01:01 PM »
 :grouphug; My prayers are with you!
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« Reply #11 on: February 24, 2009, 01:25:12 PM »
Oh Mimi, so sorry to hear that there are tough times ahead. Divorce is not pretty even when it's amicable. I pray this resolves quickly and everyone comes out better at the end (I'm sure you all will!).

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« Reply #12 on: February 24, 2009, 01:42:42 PM »
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family immediately.  I know to well what it's like to be held a financial hostage at the hands of pure evil.  I hope you both come out of it quickly and unharmed.    :grouphug;
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« Reply #13 on: February 24, 2009, 02:27:28 PM »
Divorce is not an easy emotional experience for anyone, just stand by her side and support her decisions. You will get through this and hopefully come out on top.  :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #14 on: February 24, 2009, 02:55:16 PM »
He should be  :Kit n Stik;. I'll keep you in my prayers, Mimi!
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« Reply #15 on: February 25, 2009, 03:33:37 PM »
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« Reply #16 on: February 26, 2009, 08:22:16 AM »
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Mimi,
So sorry to hear of this news.  Keeping you, and your daughter in my thoughts, and sending the best of wishes and positive thoughts your way.

 :cuddle;
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« Reply #17 on: February 26, 2009, 04:52:35 PM »
Mimi - Sorry to hear the news.  I hope for you and your family that everything resolves very quickly and as painlessly as possible.

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« Reply #18 on: February 26, 2009, 05:35:47 PM »
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« Reply #19 on: February 26, 2009, 06:11:21 PM »
Hi Mimi,

So sorry to hear about the divorce. 

My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family. 

Hope all turns out for the best.             :grouphug;

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« Reply #20 on: February 26, 2009, 08:14:10 PM »
So sorry Mimi and as others have said, you have always been so sweet and loving to us, I hate this is happening to you!    :cuddle;
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« Reply #21 on: March 07, 2009, 08:42:03 PM »
Hi Guys just got on to leave a update and saw that Glitter's husband had passed.
I feel so shocked and sorry for all of his family.

I wanted to let you all know that things are moving along with the divorce.  My
son has been in town this past week and he is going to pay the lawyer.  What a
relief.  My grandchildren are all grown :-(, so there are no small children to worry
about and both of the  boys think their Mom should get out of the marriage.  He
has the meanest mouth of anyone I've ever come in contact with.  However he has never talked ugly to me in these years I have lived with them.  He did go for 4 months and not speak to me. And nobody knew why.  I thank all of you for the
concern and advice.  Rerun, Cindy had breast cancer 4 years ago and it was a stage 4, with a tumor on her back, too.  So if she doesn't get enough money to survive she will have to try and get on disability.  Thanks again to all of you for the concern and take care.  Will talk later.

Love, Mimi
Please continue to pray.



   
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« Reply #22 on: March 07, 2009, 09:45:31 PM »
Thanks Mimi for the update, prayers for smooth transitions.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #23 on: March 08, 2009, 04:50:57 PM »
Dear Mimi,  You are in my thoughts everyday.  We miss your posts.  I hope your family gets through all of this and can move forward.  Take care of you during this stressful time.  Come back when you can.  I hope you can feel our cyber hugs   :grouphug;  :grouphug;  :grouphug;  :grouphug;
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« Reply #24 on: March 20, 2009, 02:54:28 PM »
Thinking about you Mimi.  Hope you come back to us soon.  :cuddle;
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