My husband and I were talking about this thread the other day- (before he died and took my heart with him ) I asked him if we could promise each other if whoever goes first would come back if it was possible and comfort the other, and he liked that idea- right now I would give everything to feel him one more time. maybe I will, maybe if I want to bad enough.....our power kept lickering last night- I just pretended it was him, I keep pretending he is just asleep behind me on the couch and this is just a bad fricken dream