If it does come to the parathyroidectomy, I know it sounds scary but it sounds a lot worse than it actually is. I've had two family members go through it so far and both were outpatient. One healed very quickly, the other had some soreness for a couple of weeks. Obviously, I hope surgery can be avoided, but it was presented to me as an alternative when I was having trouble tolerating the sensipar.
I'm from Europe. We have an intravenous medication called Zemplar ( paricalcitol ), which drasticly lowered my PTH, I'm on dialysis for 13 years now and before I started to get this medication, mine was 1000+ , now it's 144. I got 3 times at the end of dialysis, it is 5 microgramms. And what I really learned about PTH is that it connects to your phosphate level, if your phosphate is normal, your PTH will not increase as much if your phoshpate is high.