Thank you for the info. That's good to know about the work preference. He does have commercial insurance. They all just act surprised he's working. We're young(-ish), and he doesn't want to stop working. He even works on his dialysis days up until he leaves to go to the clinic. Is the area manager or regional vice president generally closely tied to the clinics? There is no respect for privacy in the center, so I worry about how he'll be treated if I complain. I'm guessing they know I don't know much since we're new and they're banking on me not speaking up. I just want my husband to survive this first year, and it has not been easy.
I have also done both PD and HD. I currently do PD and find it much preferable to HD. I used to be offended by the belly catheter, but now I don't even notice (except to take care of it). As far as infection goes, it's all about scrupulous technique and keeping your hand both clean and away from the tips of connectors. By using the cycler at night, I have cut down-- by a lot-- the number of connections I make daily and the odds of contamination. I don't have a hugely long track record, but I've been doing PD for about a year and half with no infection (knock on wood). I absolutely HATED in center HD and might go into hospice before doing it again. I have seen some fistulas that are far more repulsive than a belly catheter.
Dear Andrea, I never wanted PD either, but the fistula didn't work, so I crash landed into PD. I was scared about infections too. But PD was so much easier and less restrictive in diet etc that I found it like 'no dialysis'. I did get an infection after about 2 years by being complacent I suppose. The last peritonitis was caused by an infected cerebral drain.But CAPD where you do 4 or so exchanges per day was cool. I could still work (in a garden centre and a tearoom, so a lot of standing and being social ) I could do exchanges while the car was parked up when we went on day trips or something. When I had the Cycler it was even more cool. You only connect once a day (before you go to bed) and disconnect when you get up. I think I did 10 hours as I have no kidneys at all.The boxes are a lot, but you can use both arms again.The biggest problem I had then was how my body had changed into a 9 months pregnant lady.But I felt good. I think that if you both read as much info about the cleaning procedure etc that it could be a good choice.Lots of love, luck and strength, Cas
Quote from: AshtonsMuse on June 22, 2017, 12:07:37 PMThank you for the info. That's good to know about the work preference. He does have commercial insurance. They all just act surprised he's working. We're young(-ish), and he doesn't want to stop working. He even works on his dialysis days up until he leaves to go to the clinic. Is the area manager or regional vice president generally closely tied to the clinics? There is no respect for privacy in the center, so I worry about how he'll be treated if I complain. I'm guessing they know I don't know much since we're new and they're banking on me not speaking up. I just want my husband to survive this first year, and it has not been easy.If they think you and your insurance might leave they will get scared and try to help. One way to approach it sort of gently would be to ask the social worker for a list of centers nearby that have the shift you need since that center is not able to meet your needs. Personally I don't' think you need to worry about treatment, if anything they will be told to be extra nice to make you happy. (This is assuming you have nearby centers.) But you do need to be ready to switch doctors possibly. You might also complain to the doctors, if they have an ownership stake in the center they will have some pull. Keep working if you can and continue what you are doing to get the center to work and meet your family's needs. (by you I mean your loved one on dialysis and you...)
I'm still trying to understand the difference between the two types of PD. One is at night, and the other several times daily? And what do you do with the exchanged bags? Like no dialysis would be good. This has been a hard 10 months. The hemo has definitely taken its toll on his body.Thanks for the info, I'll share it with my husband.
QuoteI'm still trying to understand the difference between the two types of PD. One is at night, and the other several times daily? And what do you do with the exchanged bags? Like no dialysis would be good. This has been a hard 10 months. The hemo has definitely taken its toll on his body.Thanks for the info, I'll share it with my husband.You fill the gut with bags of sterile dialysate (premixed in bags), let sit, and then drain the liquid from your gut into a toilet, sink, shower, etc. The cycler does this for you several times during the night automagically.I am on home hemo, but would have loved to been able to stay on PD. As to the belly line - when it is finally removed (transplant or transition to hemo), it leaves a little scar. Much less invasive than a fistula or graft.
I did 3 1@ years on PD. The first year doing 4 manuals daily, then switched to using the Cycler at night. Connecting once, watch TV, go to bed and sleep. Disconnect after I got up and drained in the morning.I could eat and drink ANYTHING, and as much as I felt like, which wasn't a whole lot. The constant fluid in my belly caused me to reduce pigging out, actually improved my eating so much, cutting back and NOT over eating, that I LOST 100 pounds of excess weight that I had gained over the last 15 years since injuries changed my work.Alas, a very nasty infection caused me to lose my cath and forced me into Hemo.
Residual function helps a LOT on PD.
..............hemo is draining the life out of him too. He's lost 45lbs and barely eats as it is. He does have some residual kidney function, and I don't know if that would help him with the amount of time he has to do pd. Thanks everyone for sharing your experiences with us.