Your wife is lucky to have you. I'm glad she's feeling better.
I understand what you're saying. Kt/v is not related to how you feel. But is there anything we can use that would be more helpful? Or do we need doctors to listen to us better?
Unfortunatly there is no one good indicator for quality dialysis. You can look at phosphorus and potassium and calcium etc, but really the biggest indicator is HOW YOU FEEL. I don't think doctors use this enough as it is subjective. Yet it really is fairly accurate if you take the time to listen and think about it.
Thank you
obsidianom for mentioning this.
I am very sorry for these frightening experiences your wife went through
and there is lots of truth in it, when you say that the labs might not be as important as how we actually feel...
... I am not sure if my experiences can assist in any way, but I was quite surprised when I realized,
how "unrefined" the dialysis-system can be and how much we - as patients -
have to work-out our own quality of life, whilst being on dialysis...
... and ... to achieve an acceptable quality of life we need to contribute ...
... When I started wth dialysis, it came as a bit of a shock when I realized,
that being on dialysis is really just my basic life-support-system... meant to keep me alive...
... and without dialysis I certainly would be buried by now...
... I then thought about creating my own quality of life "despite being on dialysis",
but then I realized, that there is not that much I can contribute,
except to keep myself as fit as I possibly can and to keep to my vegetarian diet,
... in order to assist my body to "take" dialysis as well as it possibly can...
... I then realized, that my "keeping as fit as possible" plus my veggie diet can assist my body
in a very gentle way (at the moment) to "go along" with dialysis and "take on" dialysis as best as it possibly can...
... and fortunately my body has complied so far... (touch wood for it to continue)...
Best wishes and good luck from Kristina.