We went through a somewhat similar situation. I cover Frank through my employer's insurance. We really didnt understand the coordination thing, Parts A and B, or even that we had to pay for anything. The dialysis SW applied for Frank but explained nothing. She applied in Sept. and said he was covered by Medicare effective Dec.1. We never got a card, a letter, nothing. We never even knew we had it until we got a letter in February stating that they were going to withhold nearly half of Frank's first SSDI check in March for "past due Medicare premiums". I about lost my friggin mind. Here we had to pay for something we didn't want, didnt ask for, didnt know we had, and never used. I want that money back but apparently I'm SOL. We did opt out of Part B but I guess if he doesnt pick it back up at he correct time after the coordination period Frank can be penalized 10% for every 12 months he could have had Part B but didnt, or some nonsense like that. All I know is they have thier hands in our pockets again.
For those of you who say you never signed up: As soon as private insurance starts getting bills for dialysis, THEY will call Medicare and start the process. You can't avoid it. And yes if you do refuse the Medicare completely the private insurance can drop you. (None of this applies if like MooseMom you get a pre-emptive transplant. My mom gave me my first kidney and I never had Medicare but I also didn't do dialysis.) then you really do have to start paying Part B. otherwise, if you need it in the future it will cost more and you'll have to wait months for it to start.If you are unhappy with paying the copays on drugs or doctor visits with the coordinating private insurance, you can look into getting your own Part C supplemental and Part D prescription. You will probably find that even with the "wasted" money on Part B you come out ahead.I pay $100 for Part B, $285 for Part C, and $100 for Part D every month. Then I still have some significant drug copays along with paying straight through the donut hole. I also still have a few other charges. I have no eye or dental insurance.Just do the numbers.
I think that is how social workers are. Ours is the same. Every time we make her help us at the end she says "I learned something from this". Evidently Ed was the first person she had to work with that had private insurance through his work. (I don't believe it) She has been a social worker 8 years in Wyoming and Northern Colorado FMC dialysis centers.
Oh and btw, my social worker at MGH is a complete idiot. She has no clue when it comes to anything. I dread asking her anything because she just doesn't have any answers. I know next to nothing about any of these insurance issues but still know more than she does.
Part C is not the same as Medicare Advantage. We are not eligible for Medicare Advantage. We are eligible for Medicare supplement plans since with Part A and Part B you still have to pay 20% of everything. I had to buy Part C and Part D or be homeless.