Barry, Cariads right, you just have to take things one day at a time. I know it is so easy to get caught up in the "what ifs' and "oh no's" of life, but as my Grandma use to tell me many times. "don't trouble trouble, till trouble troubles you!" Good advise, and one that I sometimes fail to apply in my life on occasions.
Just don't rush into things, with out some assurances along the way! Sounds like your headed in the right direction! Slow n steady, Barry!
God Bless,
lmunchkin