I have to admit that this has me stumped. I have no idea why you would be gaining weight on a pre-D diet.My husband is a meat and potatoes guy, too, (I think most guys are) and I know that if were HIM with CKD, there's no way he would change his diet, so I really applaud your husband for being so compliant.I have heard a few rumblings in the past here on IHD about cooking methods that are more renally friendly, but I am not sure how much of that is based in real science. It's something to do with how eating the charred bits from grilling foods is bad for you. I'm going to have to try and find that discussion. That just seems like a bridge too far. But maybe there is some new thinking on the subject about which I am unaware.I am not entirely sure why red meat is worse than other proteins from purely a renal point of view. Maybe the dietician is trying to protect your husband's heart and feels that red meat is cardiovascularly riskier, but I always thought that fish in particular was higher in both protein and phosphorus than, say, lean ground beef. But she is right in telling you that the secret really is smaller portions. And as for eating a lot more vegetarian meals, I hope she was very clear in telling you that many vegetables are just WAY too high in potassium to even look at!I'm sorry, but for the life of me, I can't begin to guess what is behind your weight gain. I hate to ask, but could it be age related? Are you perhaps more sedentary than you realize?
What kind of grains are you eating? By eating more carbs, you're more likely to gain weight, especially if those carbs are processed - white rice, white bread etc. Whole grains are better for you if you are watching your weight. I know in our house we buy 2 kinds of all grains - the whole grain for me and the white stuff for SO. Eliminating and reducing protein and replacing with carbs can lead to weight gain because your body will have too much fuel in the form of carbohydrates to use, so it will go into storage by turning in to fat. That could be the cause...
Oh, I agree, Callie; a more plant based, less processed diet is unquestionably better for all of us. And to further complicate matters, there is a difference between inorganic phosphates (what you see in colas and processed meats) and the organic phosphorus you see in beans. I personally could live on beans, but beans give a double whammy by being also high in potassium. I will eat beans occasionally, but usually as a salad topping. And whenever I go back down south, I have to have at least one meal that includes black-eyes peas.I can understand doing just about anything to stay off of dialysis as long as possible! Has your husband been back to the renal dietician since his egfr has dropped below 20%, and if so, what has she had to say about potassium? If he has not seen her recently, does he plan to do so?