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« on: September 18, 2009, 06:24:34 AM »

My brother passed away Wednesday night. He had been on hemo for a little over 12 years. PKD has now taken all  of my immediate family.

My city is having a PKD walk tomorrow that I had put a goup together to walk in, instead of walking I will be attending his funeral.
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« Reply #1 on: September 18, 2009, 06:25:51 AM »

 :flower; :flower;

I am so sorry. My family is pretty well ridden with PKD including my daughter. What an insidious disease.

My heart goes out to you.

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« Reply #2 on: September 18, 2009, 06:32:01 AM »

I am very sorry to read this. That's heartbreaking. At least his struggle is over and hopefully he's in a better place.

all the best  :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #3 on: September 18, 2009, 07:17:28 AM »

I am so very sorry    :cuddle;   My thoughts and prayers will be with you   :grouphug;
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« Reply #4 on: September 18, 2009, 07:23:38 AM »

I am so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts are with you.

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« Reply #5 on: September 18, 2009, 08:04:05 AM »

So sorry to hear of your loss.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #6 on: September 18, 2009, 08:14:17 AM »

i'm sorry for your loss. know that we are thnk of you.
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« Reply #7 on: September 18, 2009, 08:27:44 AM »

R.I.P. so sorry for your loss.  :cuddle;
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« Reply #8 on: September 18, 2009, 10:20:57 AM »

You've brought tears to my eyes.  Its bad enough PKD takes some of our family members but everyone in your immediate family?  That must be very difficult to deal with.

My thoughts are with you.
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« Reply #9 on: September 18, 2009, 10:32:10 AM »

dh514,

So very sorry for your lost.  Your brother put up a good fight for 12 years.
Make sure you take care of you.    :grouphug; :grouphug;

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« Reply #10 on: September 18, 2009, 10:53:09 AM »

DH,

I'm thinking of, and praying for you..... What a horrible thing to be going through...

May your brother rest in paece...

God bless...

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« Reply #11 on: September 18, 2009, 10:54:14 AM »

So sorry to hear this, I am thinking of you and all of your brother's family and friends.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #12 on: September 18, 2009, 11:07:33 AM »

 :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;  So sorry.
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« Reply #13 on: September 18, 2009, 12:47:01 PM »

I am sorry for your loss, you have been through a lot..  :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #14 on: September 18, 2009, 12:58:39 PM »

This is truly heartbreaking. My condolences. I am so very sorry.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #15 on: September 18, 2009, 01:15:58 PM »

I am so sorry for you. :grouphug;
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« Reply #16 on: September 18, 2009, 02:02:30 PM »

My heartfelt condolences.  I lost the brother just before me after his 10 years on dialysis.  I really feel for you at this time.  Please come back soon and let us know how you are doing.  :cuddle;
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« Reply #17 on: September 18, 2009, 02:28:45 PM »

I'm so sorry.
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« Reply #18 on: September 18, 2009, 05:50:45 PM »

Oh dear! Bad enough when a parent dies, but a sibling... You have my sympathy.
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« Reply #19 on: September 18, 2009, 05:54:44 PM »

So sorry :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #20 on: September 18, 2009, 06:04:01 PM »


I am so sorry for you and your family.
It's heartbreaking to have a disease take away those you love.
Sending you prayers and hugs - take care.
Please let us know how you're doing.  :cuddle;
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« Reply #21 on: September 19, 2009, 07:29:48 AM »

 :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #22 on: September 19, 2009, 07:03:36 PM »

It's so hard to lose a loved one and when it happens to more than one in your family, it's even harder.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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« Reply #23 on: September 19, 2009, 07:09:57 PM »

I am so very sorry for your loss.  May he now rest in peace.    :cuddle;
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« Reply #24 on: September 19, 2009, 07:11:48 PM »

I am sorry for your loss.  :grouphug;
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