Sounds a bit like me.
I used to smoke like a chimney, weighed 245lb, jetted all over the world for my job and I thought I was in great health. I picked up a bug in Pakistan (thought it was maleria but it wasn't) and had a week in hospital. During verious tests they found my kidneys were failing. I should stop smoking & lose weight etc.
I was a good boy and stopped smoking (that was hard). Not long after that I had a heart attack. Three months later I got ulcerative colitis that lasted a year before I got a cure. I lost 55lb because of the colitis, so maybe it wasn't completely bad.
Maybe it took longer than if I hadn't stopped smoking or lost the weight; I expect to start dialysis in October this year. It will then be 6 years since I was first diagnosed with kidney failure. I suppose I should be depressed, but I'm not. I just think I was lucky to survive that heart attack so every day is an extra.