I agree with you Peter and what strikes me as missing from the discussion about optimal dialysis is that so many more of us could continue working and paying our taxes and contributing to the economy and to society. Zach and Bill are very good examples of what can be achieved with optimal dialysis and excellent self-care on top of that. I worked full-time (teaching at a University) during my first bout of dialysis (5 years in all) most of which was home hemo and I also did many other things, like garden, cook, entertain and so on. This time, I found that by going to 5 days a week I felt considerably better than with the standard three since I never had more than one day off at a time. Nocturnal is even better for feeling closer to normal. I live in Canada and in order to go to 5 days a week all I had to do was mention it to my neph and I started one week later. We also, here in Toronto, have self-care clinics available since we can get more dialysis for less cost and involve patients more in their own care (that involvement seems to help patients take more responsibility for other aspects of looking after themselves better) and home dialysis is strongly encouraged for anyone capable of doing it. I especially like the self-care clinic idea because that maximizes the use of the machines, cuts staffing costs and removes the stress that can be problematic when a partner is required to help or when dialysis is experienced as intruding on home life. For me personally, transplant has been my goal both times, but that in no way changes my belief that optimal dialysis ought to be pursued, for the reasons stated above and also because the better health a patient is in at the time of transplant (if that is an available option) the better the chances of a successful transplant, thereby further saving money for the healthcare system and returning optimal quality of life to renal patients.
With transplant, you simply trade one disease state for another, no matter the benefits or the risks, it is not a cure. There is still a decided benefit for transplant that is not in the least diminished by optimal dialysis. I do not in the least believe that people would wish anyone to remain on dialysis if given the choice.