Hello der

[southyard]

I have been trying to intro myself without any luck.  My putor savvy leaves a lot to be desired

When I was told my kidneys were failing I hit a low point  Being I always stated I would not be a nursing home patient I seen this as a bad step.  I thought of ways to end it allnow after 4 weeks of it I still think of ways out.    Being 84 years old I have lived my life and dont want to be a drag on my wife and family.   

[Rerun]

Hi Southyard.  Wow, 84 years old.  I do believe you are the "most Mature" member on this board.  Welcome.  Your posts will be interesting.  I would like to hear more of your thoughts.

                                                                       

[Sluff]

Many here understand how you feel Southyard, but I'm glad you are here and that you have found us. Welcome to IHD. Ask questions if you have any and relax enjoy the site. We are here for you. You are not alone.

Sluff/Admin

[flip]

For what it's worth....one ofmy best friends at dialysis is 88 and going strong. She actually skips every Saturday and shows no ill effects. She still lives at home but her granddaughter does drive her to and from dialysis. She's a tough old bird and I'm sure you are too.

[circleNthedrain]

Hi southyard, glad you joined us.  When I was at dialysis today, I noticed the gentleman who is usually in the chair next to mine, was not there.  When I inquired about him, I found out he was on a cruise.  I only mention this because he is 95! 

[Joe Paul]

Welcome Southyard, good to have you aboard.

[willieandwinnie]

  Harold. I hope you can find some information that can help you and I'd love to hear more about your life. 

[monrein]

   Glad you found us and I look forward to hearing more from you.

[peleroja]

Welcome aboard.  Hope you come back and post often.

[boxman55]

Great to have you here. If I may, I don't think your wife and family would ever think you are a "drag" If you need any help trying to figure out how to do things around here lets us know. I look forward to hearing about your life experiences. Anyone that is 84 most have some stories to tell

Boxman, Moderator

[Bajanne]

Welcome to our community!  I am glad you finally got to introduce yourself to us.  My dad was diagnosed with kidney failure at 89 and because in my country they don't dialyse "old" people, he was just allowed to leave us.  He was so alert and alive, and had things he still wanted to say (he was an retired educator, and minister of religion).  He was in very good health, except for his kidneys. Our family doctor cried because the nephs did not put him on dialysis.  We (our family) still feel that we were robbed.  You might be tired of the whole thing, but I bet your family isn't. 
anyway, we have lots going on at this site that you will find interesting.  So read a lot and post a lot.  You have much to say to us, I am sure.
Looking forward to hearing from you.



Bajanne, Moderator

[G-Ma]

  from another older than dirt ihd er.

bajanne..I am so sorry, what a cruel decision.
Ann

[lola]

 

[annabanana]

  Glad you are here. You'll love it here. 

[paris]

   I am so glad you joined us.  This is such a wonderful group of people and we hit every range of age.    Isn't there an old saying "I didn't want to live until 90 until I turned 89"?  We all want one more day.  You will have good days ahead.  Your family wants you and there are stilll many lessons and stories you need to give them.  It is really hard to hear when they tell you your kidneys are failing.  Come here for support, questions and maybe a laugh or two.   Tell us more about your family and you.   Looking forward to more posts.   




Bajanne, my neph told me stories like your father's and it was an eye opener.  I am so sorry your family was put thru this.  Your father must have been a special man.


Paris,moderator

[Romona]

 

[devon]

Welcome! 

It's not a pleasant event that brings us all together, but I hope you find the compassion and understanding that you need here. 

Being over 80 is a becoming more usual in this modern world.  You are somewhat of a pioneer.  I hope you find time to share with us so we can learn from you. Likewise, I hope we can help as you deal with kidney failure.

-Devon

[southyard]

I wish to say thanks to all that posted replies to my intro.  As I had promised one of my Drs when first I expressed my feeling I will give it a fair trial period.  This to be 6 months.  Today was the end of my 1st month of dialysis.  Alls well thus far . Today marked a week at my present clinic.  I have spent time with the dietician and social worker and the head nurse.  I have learned some new trhings. On the 29th of Sept I will meet with the surgeon regarding installing a fistula  Mine will be in my left arm .exact lopcation unknown.  What I have researched an seen has given me some insight about same.  The actual direct chat will allow me to find out more and just how it will work for me.  .

I am still making some urine and wear depends to allow for the leakage etc.  At time this is a large quantity and other days none.  Been told this is a norm or as close to normal as I will get

Haraold the old guy(alias southyard)

[boxman55]

southyard you make sure they do vein mapping on your arms so they know exactly where to go. VERY important...Boxman

[Mimi]

Hi Southyard and welcome to IHD!!!!  I was the most mature person on this board until you
came along.  You have me beat.  I'll be 75 in October.  Take care and settle down, things will
get better.

Love, Mimi

[southyard]

Hi imi
Thanks for the reply  At times I wonder if I have or ever will mature(beside the age figure) Before they tossed this curve at me I had never given my kidneys a thought. Guess I missed something. 

I am still trying to sort this all out. My 3 hour sessions on dialysis have not been to hard to take INy sessions being at 6:30 AM does leave a good portion of the day for other things. It did not change my rise time as that has been 5 AM  when the dog tells me she wants out. Then its breakfast( the main meal for me) and I am off.  Surprisingly the clinic  already has 8 patients seated and running.    more later

[Ang]

  harold




Edited: Fixed welcome sign. Boxman, Moderator

[Mimi]

Hi imi
Thanks for the reply  At times I wonder if I have or ever will mature(beside the age figure) Before they tossed this curve at me I had never given my kidneys a thought. Guess I missed something. 

I am still trying to sort this all out. My 3 hour sessions on dialysis have not been to hard to take INy sessions being at 6:30 AM does leave a good portion of the day for other things. It did not change my rise time as that has been 5 AM  when the dog tells me she wants out. Then its breakfast( the main meal for me) and I am off.  Surprisingly the clinic  already has 8 patients seated and running.    more later

I know what you mean.  Just goes to show we nearly always worry about the things that don't happen.
I thought of alot of things that might happen to me but NEVER kidney failure. I try to keep myself occupied
with other things besides my health, like politics (lol) and religion (roflol).  This board thinks I am a scewly old
lady, but that is alright, I'm too old to worry about what people think of me.  I know who I am and what I believe,
and I try to stay on Gods side.
Keep your head up and keep walking forward.

Love, Mimi

 

[boxman55]

AWWWE Mimi, who thinks your a screwy old person. I sure don't I adore you...Boxman

[paris]

 Southyard,   You seem to be finding your way around this site.  We really are glad you are here. 

And Mimi---we LOVE you!  The older I get the more I can just say what I feel!  I think that is the privelege of aging