poohkari
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Wade and I.
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« on: November 07, 2007, 06:15:45 PM » |
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I'm not going to be on here anymore because Wade (or his parents, who knows) has decided to move to Memphis and not take me with him. So, im moving back in to my moms house in NY while I try to get things together for me. This is a huge shock for me that came out of nowhere. I dont think ill ever be able to be the same.
You all have been an immense help through the past 6 months. I wish you all nothing but the best, and you will all be in my thoughts and prayers.
xoxoxoxoxoox
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Girlfriend of Wade, on dialysis since 5/11/07 and NxStage since 8/20/07. We're hoping for a transplant as soon as his "FGP" is gone!
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okarol
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« Reply #1 on: November 07, 2007, 06:41:40 PM » |
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Poohkari, You have done an incredible job of taking care of Wade, researching for him, supporting him in many ways and juggling so much responsibility. I am sorry to hear this and I really wish things could be different. I hope you keep coming back here. We really want to know that you're ok, no matter what. Best wishes to you!  |
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oswald
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« Reply #3 on: November 07, 2007, 07:03:43 PM » |
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you don't have to leave. you are still part of the IHD family. please stay.  |
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ESRD 11/95
1st Transplant 7/1996 (failed; Nephrectomy 12/1996)
2nd Transplant 3/1999 (lasted 6 years)
3rd Transplant 5/2007 (lasted 4 years)
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« Reply #4 on: November 07, 2007, 07:03:54 PM » |
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I am so sorry this has happened to you- you can still come here you know- it sounds like you will still need support as a human, and we all feel like we know you, so please- feel free to come back anytime to vent or to just be with us. You dont have to have a kidney issue to come here- you've already made friends here, your welcome to keep us if you would like. |
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Jack A Adams July 2, 1957--Feb. 28, 2009
I will miss him- FOREVER
caregiver to Jack (he was on dialysis)
RCC
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« Reply #5 on: November 07, 2007, 07:14:55 PM » |
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sorry your going through this please stay |
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Home Hemo 18 months
Live donor transplant 28th October 2008
from my beautiful sister
Royal Prince Alfred Sydney Australia
Live donors rock
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« Reply #6 on: November 07, 2007, 07:23:34 PM » |
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PoohKari, please do stay. We need you as muich as you need us. |
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« Reply #7 on: November 07, 2007, 07:35:54 PM » |
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I'm so sorry you are going through this. Please consider staying. Amanda xxxoo |
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« Reply #8 on: November 07, 2007, 08:53:02 PM » |
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I am so sorry. I don't know what to say to comfort you. I hope Wade and his family know that they owe you a great debt. I do hope you will come back to let us know how you are doing. We will worry about you, you know. Be kind to yourself and get some much needed rest. |
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Lorelle
Husband Mike Diagnosed with PKD Fall of 2004
Fistula Surgery 1/06
Fistula Revision 11/06
Creatinine 6.9 1/07
Started diaysis 2/5/07 on NxStage
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« Reply #9 on: November 07, 2007, 09:13:24 PM » |
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I hope it all works out for you soon.
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 lifenotonthelist.com Ivanova: "Old Egyptian blessing: May God stand between you and harm in all the empty places you must walk." Babylon 5 Remember your present situation is not your final destination. Take it one day, one hour, one minute, one second at a time. "If we don't find a way out of this soon, I'm gonna lose it. Lose it... It means go crazy, nuts, insane, bonzo, no longer in possession of ones faculties, three fries short of a Happy Meal, wacko!" Jack O'Neill - SG-1 |
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« Reply #10 on: November 07, 2007, 09:35:37 PM » |
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Kari, you were a great support to Wade. In time I am sure this will become apparent to all involved in the move. I wish you well and please drop in here and tell us how you are going. |
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July 13th 2009 Cadaveric 5/6 Antigen Match Transplant from my Special Angel
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Joe Paul
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« Reply #11 on: November 08, 2007, 12:24:57 AM » |
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So sorry this is happening to you. I hope no matter what happens, you will be alright |
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"The history of discovery is completed by those who don't follow rules"
Angels are with us, but don't take GOD for granted
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« Reply #12 on: November 08, 2007, 03:39:07 AM » |
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Please stay. I live in Pennsylvania so thats not so far from NY. This dialysis bs is crazy. my ex left me with my kids in Nashville. She couldn't take it anymore. If you need to talk please do.
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i am a 51 year old male on dialysis for 3 years now. This is my second time. My brother donated a kidney to me about 13 years ago. I found this site on another site. I had to laugh when i saw what it was called. I hope to meet people from all over to talk about dialysis.
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« Reply #13 on: November 08, 2007, 04:13:13 AM » |
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« Reply #14 on: November 08, 2007, 05:45:42 AM » |
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I hope you stay with us Kari...we love your spirit and, of course, you bring some real rock & roll sensibility to the boards!
Take good care of yourself and know that we'll be here if you need us.
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Not giving up...thanks to Susan.
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« Reply #15 on: November 08, 2007, 05:46:07 AM » |
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Hang around we will miss you greatly if you don't...Boxman
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"Be the change you wished to be" Started Hemodialysis 8/14/06 Lost lower right leg 5/16/08 due to Diabetes Sister was denied donation to me for medical reasons 1/2008 |
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« Reply #16 on: November 08, 2007, 05:58:38 AM » |
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Take some time to recover from this.. do some nice things. Then drop in here from time to time let us know how you are doing. |
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OH NO!!! I have Furniture Disease as well ! My chest has dropped into my drawers !
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« Reply #17 on: November 08, 2007, 06:12:40 AM » |
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Please........... I am joining with the others. You are family now. There is absolutely no reason for you not to continue to post. We really don't want to lose you. Who knows what might work out in the future. For the present, we are here for you. Feel free to vent, or rage right here if you need to. That is what family is for. From all of us and from me |
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« Reply #18 on: November 08, 2007, 06:52:26 AM » |
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Kari,
Sending you my best wishes from NJ. Please remember that this
board is here if you need to vent- you have been thru so much
maybe now take some time for you-and please let all of us
know how you are!
Anne
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« Reply #19 on: November 08, 2007, 11:18:41 AM » |
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« Reply #20 on: November 08, 2007, 07:37:22 PM » |
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Sorry things are crummy for you now. |
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« Reply #21 on: November 08, 2007, 08:38:02 PM » |
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Kari, there is so much i want to say but i dont think here is the place to do it, this really pisses me off. You hang in there girlfriend and remember, we are here for you always |
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poohkari
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« Reply #22 on: November 09, 2007, 09:25:24 AM » |
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thanks guys, it really means a lot that so many of you care and appreciated the help i was given. i'll check in so often. i just booked my flight home for tuesday. now that wades mom has joined the boards, hopefully she will get invo;ved and keep you all up to date on him.
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Girlfriend of Wade, on dialysis since 5/11/07 and NxStage since 8/20/07. We're hoping for a transplant as soon as his "FGP" is gone!
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« Reply #23 on: November 09, 2007, 12:50:49 PM » |
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Wade doesn't know what he'll be missing -- yet! You did your best for him, and you've also got a wonderful future ahead for yourself. Good luck.
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« Reply #24 on: November 09, 2007, 02:07:20 PM » |
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Yep, that is sooo true, you know the saying, you never realize how much you need or care about someone until they are gone, dont be surprised if he shows up at your front door  |
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