Thanks, Black. It sounds like your husband is getting good care. ...
Actually he wasn't until I began doing research on-line and found sites like this. In fact, what I learned on
www.lifeoptions.org probably added many years to his life. Things I've learned here, and on other sites, have and will add quality to his life. (The information and support I've gotten from other posters on-line has been the only silver lining in this whole mess.) Because of our previous bad experiences with the medical community, I had learned many years ago to be very wary -- it isn't always easy to recognize an idiot wearing a "doctor suit". However, I was still surprised to find the level of ignorance and incompetence at every level while trying to learn about PKD, kidney failure, and dialysis -- with issues so critical, I had naively expected better.
In other words, don't depend solely on your medical team for answers. Being here is a giant step in the right direction.