Welcome. As someone who has done both in-center Hemo and home PD, I can say unequivocally that PD is much gentler on the body and does a great job--especially if you are still peeing. So I'm asking whether you have considered PD? It's not too late, and your fistula will serve as a backup for years down the line when you may have to switch back to Hemo.
On this site I've read many members stories for whom dialysis is almost unbearable. Yet for me it really was not that big of a deal.
Once you are sort of settled in you will only see your nephrologist once per month