Quote from: Simon Dog on September 09, 2013, 07:30:09 AMWhat is the logical difference between opposing gay marriage and opposing interracial marriage?Would those of you saying everyone should be able to do business with only those people who match their values be as supportive of a pastor refusing to marrying a salt and pepper couple?You are asking me that question? Well, let me ask my brown skinned wife what she thinks on that issue. Yes, I am in an "interracial marriage" as you say. The Bible states that we are all of one blood. Sorry, false question, the Bible does NOT teach that we cannot marry anyone we wish. Sorry, you are quite mistaken on that false analogy.
What is the logical difference between opposing gay marriage and opposing interracial marriage?Would those of you saying everyone should be able to do business with only those people who match their values be as supportive of a pastor refusing to marrying a salt and pepper couple?
Quote from: Hemodoc on September 09, 2013, 12:31:05 PMQuote from: Simon Dog on September 09, 2013, 07:30:09 AMWhat is the logical difference between opposing gay marriage and opposing interracial marriage?Would those of you saying everyone should be able to do business with only those people who match their values be as supportive of a pastor refusing to marrying a salt and pepper couple?You are asking me that question? Well, let me ask my brown skinned wife what she thinks on that issue. Yes, I am in an "interracial marriage" as you say. The Bible states that we are all of one blood. Sorry, false question, the Bible does NOT teach that we cannot marry anyone we wish. Sorry, you are quite mistaken on that false analogy.There have been times in history where interracial marriage was so obviously wrong (by the cultural norms of the time) that many states had laws against it. These were overturned long before gay marriage became an issue. As recently as 20 years ago, gay marriage was so outside societal norms that few would have even considered it could happen. There are distinct similarities between interracial and gay marriage from the perspective of both societal norms and legislation.I understand that it is a "false analogy" for those who consider the Bible to be the true word of a supreme being. I am not one of those people, and our system of government does not grant Biblical dictum any standing.
Banning the anti-miscegenation laws imposes no burden whatsoever on religious freedom. It does the opposite in fact.
Not apologizing, but, yes, I do believe in God and the Bible as he wrote it. It is unfortunate that so many people no longer believe in God, but other than live an exemplary life and talking when I can about Him, there is not a lot I can do about it. I love IHD, but the pattern of it has changed very subtly since I joined in 2008. Then, we all joined in on the fight against this nasty disease we all have or are connected to, to support others and share our knowledge. Now, if any one dares to make a statement there are 10 or more people ready to jump on them for any reason at all. I do believe it s called "bullying". Think about it next time you lay your fingers on your keyboard. Everyone has the right to enter any thread if they care to, even if they do not write prolific page lengths. But, you are all grown ups, so I am preaching to the choir.
QuoteBanning the anti-miscegenation laws imposes no burden whatsoever on religious freedom. It does the opposite in fact. There had been some religious groups that oppose interracial marriage - for example, one Baptist church in KY (Banning the anti-miscegenation laws imposes no burden whatsoever on religious freedom. It does the opposite in fact. ).So, logically speaking, gay and mixed marriages are the same concept - a form of marriage that some churches find unacceptable, but that are becoming generally accepted by society.Your declaration of "false analogy" only works for your particular religious perspective.
And I have to agree with Jean about your use of "my friend." It comes across as somewhat snarky and/or insincere because you tend to use it when addressing those with whom you most strongly disagree. Aleta (a happy atheist)
Hemodoc, you asked where you said that you were cherry picking the Bible. You did not say that. I am the one who is saying that you cherry pick the Bible. It is full of contradictions, so you must be picking out the parts you want to believe and ignoring the rest. That is cherry picking. And BTW, which Bible is the right Bible? Are you reading one that has already had the contradictions ironed out? Who decided what to include and what to eliminate? And have you read it in the original Greek? Have you looked at all the early books that were once included in the Bible but are not included anymore? Who decided what to keep and what to toss? Was that god speaking through humans? Why not write it correctly the first time through? And about those contradictions, was god confused about what he wrote and wrote something else? Isn't god supposed to be all-knowing and all-powerful? That preacher in Kentucky cited earlier in this thread probably believes just as strongly as you do that he follows the TRUE word of god. What makes him wrong and you right? And please provide those "absolute examples of how the gay marriage issue has already had a negative impact on personal religious freedoms in the US, Canada and Europe." I cannot see where allowing any consenting adults to enter in any marriage infringes on you or your church to assemble and believe whatever you want (or any other variant of Christianity to do the same). Of course it doesn't allow you to FORCE others to live by your beliefs. But that wouldn't be freedom, would it? If your idea of religious freedom means that everyone must live by YOUR creed, you have a very strange concept of freedom. I know many Christians who do not find gay marriage as abhorrent as you do. What makes your brand of Christianity better than theirs? I absolutely uphold and respect your right to believe whatever you want. Or for anyone to believe whatever they want about marriage. I do not uphold your right to impose those beliefs on others who do not share them. I am an ordained humanist celebrant and I perform many weddings. If gay marriage were legal in my state, I would be more than happy to oblige gay couples who wanted to marry. Some of the nicest people I know are gay and are in loving relationships. I am happy whenever they are afforded more of the same rights that others have. And I have to agree with Jean about your use of "my friend." It comes across as somewhat snarky and/or insincere because you tend to use it when addressing those with whom you most strongly disagree. Aleta (a happy atheist)
Quote from: willowtreewren on September 10, 2013, 06:14:57 PMAnd I have to agree with Jean about your use of "my friend." It comes across as somewhat snarky and/or insincere because you tend to use it when addressing those with whom you most strongly disagree. Aleta (a happy atheist)YES! Enough with the "my friend." It is condescending at best. While we are at it stop with the brown skin wife crap. Marrying someone other than a Caucasian woman does not prove that you are not racist in anyway and stating so just makes you look ridiculous.
Sorry, but the Bible is NOT full of contradictions but I don't believe I will try to convince you of that.
My brand of Christianity is quite simple. I believe that the Bible is the true, literal Word of God. I could go into my salvation testimony showing why I believe that, but I will not bother since it is my own personal testimony. I have nothing to prove to you on this. If you wish to not believe the Bible so be it. Aleta, you are further mistaken that I push my views on you or anyone else. I exercise my right to free speech and freedom of religion, but if that doesn't shake your tail, so be it. To each his own. So where do you get the notion that I push my beliefs on anyone? Sorry, you are sorely mistaken.
BTW, the gospel is such that as a Christian, we do offer to tell anyone who wishes about the love of Christ, but if not interested our duty is to only offer. Christianity is a religion of choice and free will. The statements you are making belie your ignorance on what Christianity really is. Your view of what Christianity is I am afraid is quite in error.
Now, the "preacher in Kentucky" is here once again, but to date it appears to be a hypothetical argument and not one in fact. In addition, you fail to understand that there are probably more enemies of the true gospel of Christ operating from within the churches and doing great damage than those who are outside of any church establishment. remember the "wolves in sheep's clothing" that Christ Himself warned his followers about. So even if you do find an example of someone who espouses this belief, it is likely that that have many such heretical views on the Bible.
Humanists are concerned for the well being of all, are committed to diversity, and respect those of differing yet humane views. We work to uphold the equal enjoyment of human rights and civil liberties in an open, secular society and maintain it is a civic duty to participate in the democratic process and a planetary duty to protect nature's integrity, diversity, and beauty in a secure, sustainable manner.
So, I assume you agree with bringing about an "open, secular society." In such a setting, where is there room for anyone who believes in a Christianity which is in direct conflict with your goals of a "secular" society? It looks like the answer will be there is no room for us. Thus, Aleta, who is imposing their views on whom?
5) Where have I ever stated I want a theocracy?
They are looking for a new non-theistic faith
7) There you go again making statements that I have never stated. I have asserted that the gay marriage issue is a states rights issue under the 10th amendment. If folks wish to vote for gay marriage state by state, I don't and won't support that, but it is left to the will of the people. What part of imposing my views on someone else is found in that statement?
Quote 5) Where have I ever stated I want a theocracy?Where did I say that you wanted one?
How is a Christian backed government any different in function from one based on Sharia law? It seems to me it is simply a difference in creed, not function.Isn't that in essence a theocracy as you are describing?
How do gay rights infringe first amendment liberties? I thought I had made this quite clear. The Oregon bakery incident is quite striking. Exercising Christian values by NOT participating in gay marriage is now chastised. That is a direct infringement of first amendment rights. As in Europe and Canada, the courts have decided along the lines of the Humanist Manifesto's elevating gay rights above religious freedom.
I thought I had made this quite clear. The Oregon bakery incident is quite striking. Exercising Christian values by NOT participating in gay marriage is now chastised. That is a direct infringement of first amendment rights. As in Europe and Canada, the courts have decided along the lines of the Humanist Manifesto's elevating gay rights above religious freedom.
QuoteI thought I had made this quite clear. The Oregon bakery incident is quite striking. Exercising Christian values by NOT participating in gay marriage is now chastised. That is a direct infringement of first amendment rights. As in Europe and Canada, the courts have decided along the lines of the Humanist Manifesto's elevating gay rights above religious freedom.All right. I think I now understand your point, although I disagree with it. I think civil law SHOULD supersede religious "law." Ours is a civil government, not a theocracy. The founding fathers were very clear on establishing it as such. So, where religious practices (discrimination of gays in this case) go counter to civil law, those practices fall outside the law. Just as those whose religion bans medical intervention may be held accountable for the deaths of children when medical intervention could prevent those deaths. This gets back to having to decide which religions are "right." You think that yours is right and that gays should be treated as second class citizens. Others might think that their religion is right and that those who discriminate against gays are second class citizens. The practice of religious freedom ends where it crosses the boundary of legality.