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Simon Dog
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« on: November 03, 2012, 01:27:30 PM »

Mid 50s male, started PD 3 months ago.  I'm glad I didn't read this board before starting, because the process to date (on Liberty cycler, 5 2000 ml exchanges/day) has been much easier than expected.   My productivity at work was down for about 4 weeks due to all the training appointments, manual exchange schedule, etc. but I'm back to full time work as a corporate drone.   Had my first 5 day trip (via domestic air) with the cycler, and am taking a couple more short ones with manual (business meetings where I can easily duck back to the hotel room to hang a bag).   

I am confident my doc will help me get home hemo if PD stops working, so that keeps the worry down.    Having a tube in the gut is a small price to pay to avoid a fistula (or two, or three, or four....)

I haven't been hit with depression or hopelessness yet, and am still dragging my feet on drafting that list of which of my toys to give to my various friends when I kick the bucket.   Perhaps someday the enormity of how much this sucks will sink in and I'll head down a depressive spiral, but at present, life looks pretty good and my wife still yells at me to take out the garbage.
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« Reply #1 on: November 03, 2012, 03:40:24 PM »

Welcome to the site Simon Dog. Glad to hear you've got it under controle already.

take care Cas
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I started out with nothing and I still have most of it left

1983 high proteinloss in urine, chemo, stroke,coma, dialysis
1984 double nephrectomy
1985 transplant from dad
1998 lost dads kidney, start PD
2003 peritineum burst, back to hemo
2012 start Nxstage home hemo
2020 start Gambro AK96

       still on waitinglist, still ok I think
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« Reply #2 on: November 03, 2012, 08:09:29 PM »

Oh Simon, what a delight you are.  It is great that you can continue to work.  I think it gives one some purpose in life.  PD will work great for ya and if you have to go Home hemo, with your outlook, you will make it work for you too.

Welcome aboard, & God Bless,
lmunchkin :kickstart;
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11/2004 Hubby diag. ESRD, Diabeties, Vascular Disease & High BP
12/2004 to 6/2009 Home PD
6/2009 Peritonitis , PD Cath removed
7/2009 Hemo Dialysis In-Center
2/2010 BKA rt leg & lt foot (all toes) amputated
6/2010 to present.  NxStage at home
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« Reply #3 on: November 04, 2012, 08:19:41 AM »

Welcome Simon.

I've been on hemo for 17 months.  I'm in the middle of transitioning to PD.  I don't think how much dialysis sucks is going to abruptly descend on you.  My goal is to be as active as you are.  That would make me very happy.  So if you aren't depressed, "Don't worry, be happy."

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« Reply #4 on: November 04, 2012, 08:34:42 AM »

Hi Simon and welcome to IHD.  I'm glad you found us.  We are here for education and on days when you question things to come here and vent.

I'd say you are in the Honeymoon stage where you are just happy to be alive.  That is a good place.
But, just know it is normal to become a little down now and then.  Just say'in.  It is normal.

Come here anytime.  We welcome you.

Rerun, Moderator     :welcomesign; 
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« Reply #5 on: November 04, 2012, 12:49:05 PM »

 :welcomesign; Simon!
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« Reply #6 on: November 05, 2012, 07:22:14 PM »

 :welcomesign; and you hit a funny nerve in me.... the part about your wife yelling at you to take out the gargage...  Well, hubby always knows when i think he's better than usual because i can get fussy at him.. otherwize, im running around kissing his ,,,well you know..  Im glad you came here, and i think you'll like it..  ;D
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november 2010, patiently (ha!) waiting our turn for NxStage training
January 14,2011 home with NxStage
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« Reply #7 on: November 06, 2012, 07:47:35 AM »

welcome  - I'm trying not to sound negative on your smiles and bright outlook.  But, I felt that way when I first started D. I had the mind set that OK I'm on dialysis, no problem - life won't change.  WRONG!  your life and life style will change with D.  And as said, there will be times when you are down (depressed) Some go down more than others, some take longer to get back up. But if you can keep the smile on your face, the downs won't be as bad.  Please keep checking in on the site, post often. Become a member of the family and the most important part - try to make someone Else's life a bit better.  This is the place to rant, rave, ask questions, give advice.  Welcome   Grumpy
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