Welcome ZM. I see you are from Louisville. My husband went to Uof L, and we lived there briefly (14mths) in l995. Beautiful city there! GO CARDS!!!!!!
You will learn alot from this site. More so probably than the Professionals, SERIOUSLY!!! Hopefully she can get a transplant, but if not, check into all her options and be proactive. This is not fun for her nor you, but she will need you now more than ever.
Please come here often and ask anything you like. They have a place for Caregivers input too. Lots of good stuff to help you along!
You and her are in my prayers!
lmunchkin