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« on: May 24, 2011, 12:44:42 AM »
On my birthday yesterday I got the news that my donor has not passed all her tests. She has a very low HB and are not absorbing any iron. (even after treatment) So the whole thing is now off the board.

So back to square one......... Will I even see the age of 60?

Well that sounds a bit morbid , I am feeling better after the last 2 months of infections and bleeding cysts. Thanks for all of you sending me messages and wellwishes.

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« Reply #1 on: May 24, 2011, 01:16:42 AM »
Sorry to hear Des, maybe something will work out. I hope your friend can find some help to absorb iron.
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« Reply #2 on: May 24, 2011, 01:57:05 AM »
I'm sorry you've had this setback, but maybe Fate has something else in store - and by that you seeing 60 with a kidney!! Try to not loose faith. It's just another bump. Hang in there.....
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« Reply #3 on: May 24, 2011, 05:04:21 AM »
 
I am so sorry for you, this set-back seems so unfair
and I do hope you have some better luck soon.

Best wishes from Kristina.
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« Reply #4 on: May 24, 2011, 05:41:39 AM »
 :grouphug; :grouphug;

Des, I know how hard the set-backs are. Carl had several donors denied. It was hard on me when I was denied and another donor felt really cheated when she was denied.

But hang in there.  :cuddle;

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« Reply #5 on: May 24, 2011, 05:51:37 AM »
Thanks all!

My problem is :  I don't have donors lined up or the finances to have them tested. So this was a heavy blow. I really have been kicked,punched, and thrown around this last two months. The transplant clinic phoned me this morning to confirm that we are not doing the transplant any more. She was amazed on how calm and strong I was, little did she know ..... I was doing the "silent scream" thing.   

I really don't know how I am going to get through........
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« Reply #6 on: May 24, 2011, 06:16:55 AM »
im sorry Des  :(  Seems we need a group hug here too  :grouphug;  I surly hope something happens soon for you...
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« Reply #7 on: May 24, 2011, 07:48:17 AM »
 :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #8 on: May 24, 2011, 12:34:56 PM »
I am so sorry Des, that's the worse news.
 :grouphug;
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« Reply #9 on: May 24, 2011, 01:21:53 PM »
I'm sorry.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #10 on: May 24, 2011, 07:55:18 PM »
Iam so sorry Des.  Just keep on doing what youv'e been doing.  Make the best you can with what you got.  You are a strong person. And do not give up on a transplant!  I wish my husband could get one but was told he couldnt.  It was very hard for him to take, but 6yrs later, he is still going on with this disease. Never let it kick your butt!

Again, sorry that this did not work out, but maybe some one will come up with another kidney.  You deserve it!

Will pray for you, :pray;

lmunchkin      :flower;
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« Reply #11 on: May 25, 2011, 12:43:41 AM »
Oh, Des, so sorry to hear this bad news. Trust in the Lord with all of your heart, and I know you can. He has a purpose and a reason and maybe soon you will know what it is.
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« Reply #12 on: May 25, 2011, 01:32:37 AM »
Des, I am at a loss for words.   :grouphug;  :grouphug;  :grouphug;
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« Reply #13 on: May 25, 2011, 03:44:46 PM »
 :grouphug;  Sad news, Des.  Keep your chin up.  We love you and we're hear to listen. 
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« Reply #14 on: July 11, 2011, 03:03:06 AM »
Hey Des I just found this thread...man  this sucks. I know you are out there in IHD land still living and contributing. I am so glad that you haven't slipped away from us. Thanks for all the encouragement. Don't give up.

xo,
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« Reply #15 on: July 12, 2011, 12:34:33 AM »
it all usually happens when you least expect it. :thumbup;
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« Reply #16 on: July 12, 2011, 01:10:17 AM »
Quote from: Ang on July 12, 2011, 12:34:33 AM
it all usually happens when you least expect it. :thumbup;

Just like my mate yesterday. She'd been up the bush for the weekend, just got home at 12noon yesterday... 12:30 phone rings! Thank god it was when she was home and not in the middle of nowhere!!!

Hoping that call comes sooner than later!
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3/1993: Diagnosed with Kidney Failure (FSGS)
25/7/2006: Started hemo 3x/week 5 hour sessions :(
27/11/2010: Cadaveric kidney transplant from my wonderful donor!!! "Danny" currently settling in and working better every day!!! :)

BE POSITIVE * BE INFORMED * BE PROACTIVE * BE IN CONTROL * LIVE LIFE!
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