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« on: February 26, 2011, 03:15:46 PM »
Yesterday, was My Husbands, Ron, Memorial Service. He was Buried in the East Tennessee Veterans Cemetary. There was a 21 Gun Salute, Taps and the Folding and Presentation, of the Flag to Me. People came from as far away, as California. It was, a most Beautiful and Fitting, Tribute, to a Man, that had, Worked hard all His Life, Served, the Country, He Loved and Fought a Long and Hard, Battle, with His Disease. He was always a Gentleman and remained, so, until the end. I Believe, in my Heart, that, Death, was not the Winner, that Day, Ron, was the One, who left, the Battle Field, holding the Victors Flag. God Bless, You all and again, Thank You, for Your Kind Words of Support, these last few Weeks.


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« Reply #1 on: February 26, 2011, 03:17:23 PM »
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« Reply #2 on: February 26, 2011, 03:20:57 PM »
What a beautiful Tribute.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #3 on: February 26, 2011, 04:12:59 PM »
beautiful jo-ann........     :grouphug;
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Transplanted 1/6/11 (Chain Transplant My altruistic donor was  "Becky from Chicago" , and DH Mike donated on my behalf and the chain continued...)
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« Reply #4 on: February 26, 2011, 04:16:18 PM »
 :grouphug; Thanks Jo-Ann
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
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« Reply #5 on: February 26, 2011, 05:33:34 PM »
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« Reply #6 on: February 26, 2011, 05:38:48 PM »
thinking of you! :grouphug;
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« Reply #7 on: February 26, 2011, 05:41:55 PM »
I so hope that the memorial service gave you solace.  Thank you very much for sharing this with us.  Please stay in our community; please don't leave us.
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« Reply #8 on: February 26, 2011, 06:51:31 PM »
beautiful, emotional, and full of pride for that man of yours.  You must have burst with pride.  Sending you all my best wishes, and thank yu for comming here to tell us of this.   Touches me greatly...  bless you, and bring you comfort..
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« Reply #9 on: February 26, 2011, 07:21:42 PM »
Jo Ann, what a lovely tribute to a wonderful man.  And, I agree, he was the victor.  May you find comfort in your love for him.   :cuddle;
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« Reply #10 on: February 27, 2011, 05:34:07 AM »
I'm sure that service was just amazing and you were very proud. I'm sorry you lost your husband. I can't imagine when it's time to lose your partner. Our family member was recently buried in a veterns cemetary but with sounding like a smaller ceremony. It was till outsiding the way the US Navy did it. You had beautiful way to remember your husband by.
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« Reply #11 on: February 27, 2011, 11:44:57 PM »
Lovely tribute to him. Hope you are doing okay in your life too.    :cuddle; :cuddle;
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« Reply #12 on: February 28, 2011, 12:27:00 AM »
Lovely Tribute!...

May Ron's soul rest in peace...

Hope you're doing okay(ish) too...

God bless...

Darth...
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Cared for my late mum, Elsie who had Kidney Failure... Darling mum died on July 15th 2014... May her gentle soul rest in peace....
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« Reply #13 on: February 28, 2011, 04:04:56 AM »
 :grouphug;  Thinking of you, take care  Yvonne
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2007- since January 2007 carer to my husband John who has the following, allways been a very fit man up till then.
2007 - January Renal failure
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2007 - June One kidney, Prostrate and Bladder removed with stage 4 cancer. Urostomy
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« Reply #14 on: February 28, 2011, 06:50:51 AM »
Sounds like Ron was a great man with an accomplished life.
Wishing you all the best Jo-Ann
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« Reply #15 on: February 28, 2011, 10:10:39 AM »
Awww, Jo-Ann.  *huggles*
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Everything was beautiful, and nothing hurt.
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« Reply #16 on: February 28, 2011, 11:47:45 AM »
I have been thinking about you a lot JoAnn...hope everyday gets easier...hang tough!

xo,
R
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Born with autosomal recessive polycystic kidney disease
1995 - AV Fistula placed
Dec 7, 1999 cadaver transplant saved me from childhood dialysis!
10 transplant years = spleenectomy, gall bladder removed, liver biopsy, bone marrow aspiration.
July 27, 2010 Started dialysis for the first time ever.
June 21, 2011 2nd kidney nonrelated living donor
September 2013 Liver Cancer tumor.
October 2013 Ablation of liver tumor.
Now scans every 3 months to watch for new tumors.
Now Status 7 on the wait list for a liver.
How about another decade of solid health?
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