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« on: November 26, 2009, 10:05:08 AM »
Just got the news today that two of my sisters in law passed away in the last few days.  My oldest brother, Rudolph, died in 1974.  His widow Catherine passed away in New York last week.
Another brother, Neville, died in 2001.  His first wife, Grace, who lives in Canada, also passed this week.
I have not been very close to either of these two sisters in law since they left Barbados when I was quite young, but I do have a close relationship to their children (and in the case of Catherine, her grandchildren) and therefore sorrow with them for their loss.
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« Reply #1 on: November 26, 2009, 10:15:25 AM »
I am really sorry for your family's loss. :grouphug;
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« Reply #2 on: November 26, 2009, 10:35:30 AM »
Family loss can be hard on everyone. Prayers are winging their way to you.
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« Reply #3 on: November 26, 2009, 01:36:28 PM »
So sorry. The distance in miles and time doesn't make it any easier.

 :grouphug; :grouphug;

Thinking of you.

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« Reply #4 on: November 26, 2009, 02:05:10 PM »
My condolences.
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« Reply #5 on: November 26, 2009, 02:12:01 PM »
I am sorry to hear this, Bajanne. My best to your family as you all come to terms with these losses.

Take care.  :grouphug;  :cuddle;
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« Reply #6 on: November 26, 2009, 07:54:03 PM »
I am sorry, Bajanne.  I hope their families are dealing with their loss. I hope you and Sam are doing ok, too   :cuddle;
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« Reply #7 on: November 26, 2009, 08:06:27 PM »
So sorry to hear of this. My condolences to  your family.
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« Reply #8 on: November 27, 2009, 01:15:05 AM »
Oh Bajanne, what a shame.  One is enough and twos too much.  My sympathies to you and your family.
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« Reply #9 on: November 27, 2009, 06:01:21 AM »
I'm so sorry for the family's loss.  But, they are in a better place and together again.
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« Reply #10 on: November 27, 2009, 06:57:40 AM »
Bajanne, sorry for your loss.  My thoughts are with you. 
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« Reply #11 on: November 27, 2009, 11:00:39 AM »
Aaww, that's a lot on you.I wish I could say something to make it better but for now, I just say that I'll be thinking about you.
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« Reply #12 on: November 27, 2009, 11:56:22 AM »
My condolences too.
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« Reply #13 on: November 27, 2009, 12:15:53 PM »
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« Reply #14 on: November 27, 2009, 12:36:29 PM »
Honey, I'm so sorry for your loss. Recently I learned a friend from long ago had passed from cancer....even though time and distance seperated us, I had fond memories and felt the sharp pang of loss, as I am sure you are feeling now.   :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #15 on: November 28, 2009, 12:27:20 PM »
Bajanne - my condolences to your family. 
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« Reply #16 on: November 29, 2009, 06:41:54 AM »
Bajanne, I'm so sorry for your family.  Hopefullly you can fill a hole for those kids and help them through this. 
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