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« on: August 24, 2009, 11:52:32 PM »
I'd just like to say a big thank you to everyone who has supported me (on here and in PMs) throughout Dad's illness, not just these past few weeks since he passed away, but over the last 2+ years.  You are truly wonderful, caring people. Although I have never met any of you I really feel that you are good friends of mine and I have shared things with you that I could not share with anyone else.

I'm not leaving you (I couldn't just walk away) but I need to take some time out, we have the funeral today and then I have a lot of paperwork to cope with (as you can imagine) as Mum is not really emotionally up to coping with it all. I also want to take her away for a few trips, just gentle quiet times together where we can relax and restore our batteries.  So please don't worry if I don't post so much for a while, I will still check in and see how you are all doing and I will post when I can.  I care about you all and I don't want to lose touch, I'm just having a breather (hope that means the same in the USA etc as the UK!!).

I will be back soon, I couldn't stay away long, but I just didn't want any of you worrying that something had happened to me if I disappear for a little while (look how concerned we all are about David13) .  Maybe I'm flattering myself to think you'd notice  ;) but I know Karol always worries about all of us (bless you for that Karol).

My love and prayers are with you all,
see you again soon
Rose xxxx  :grouphug;
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« Reply #1 on: August 25, 2009, 05:12:11 AM »
Rose, take your time and come back when you can. You have dealt with lot over the past two years. Good luck and god speed,
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« Reply #2 on: August 25, 2009, 05:42:30 AM »
 :cuddle; Rose, we will be here waiting. Hope you and your Mom get some much deserved rest.  :cuddle;
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« Reply #3 on: August 25, 2009, 06:09:15 AM »
 :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #4 on: August 25, 2009, 06:12:29 AM »
Rose...

I look forward to your return....

I hope today goes well, and I'll be thinking of you....

Enjoy your little breaks, and say 'Hi' to your mum for me....

May God bless and protect you...

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« Reply #5 on: August 25, 2009, 08:30:04 AM »
All the best to you Rose and of course to your Mum.  Enjoy your time together and relax to the max.
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« Reply #6 on: August 25, 2009, 08:41:58 AM »

Sweet Rose, you're so thoughtful - I would worry - you know me well!
We're with you always.  :cuddle;
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« Reply #7 on: August 25, 2009, 08:45:28 AM »
 :thx; to you to for all you have done and shared with us.
Until we chat again i hope you and your mother can find the closure and rest you are both well due. 
:waving; Till we meet up again Rose.
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« Reply #8 on: August 25, 2009, 09:05:08 AM »
Rose This is so thoughtful of you to remember to say au revoir during you difficult time.  I hope you come back rested, refreshed and anew. 
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« Reply #9 on: August 25, 2009, 10:16:51 AM »
Rose, its very easy to be supportive to you, take your time, do what you have to do, and know we will be here :)
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« Reply #10 on: August 25, 2009, 01:24:13 PM »
Not to make you feel guilty...but, we will miss you.  However, you NEED this break at this time.  Relax, regroup, refresh, and spend some quality time with your mom.  We'll see you when you get back.
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« Reply #11 on: August 25, 2009, 01:40:44 PM »
I'll be thinking of you, rose as you navigate this period of your life.

 :flower; :flower;
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« Reply #12 on: August 25, 2009, 03:14:25 PM »
Rose, thanks for letting us know.  I hope you and your Mother get much needed rest.

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« Reply #13 on: August 25, 2009, 03:24:46 PM »
thanks for letting us know, yes, we would have noticed if you were gone. enjoy your travels and the time spent with your mother. take all the time you need, we'll be here when you get back.
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« Reply #14 on: August 25, 2009, 09:07:51 PM »
Rose, take as much time as you need. Getting away and relaxing wil be good for the both of you.

Enjoy your time away.
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« Reply #15 on: August 25, 2009, 11:37:37 PM »
How sweet of you to let us know Rose. Take Mum and have a wonderful R & R . We will talk to you when you come back to say hi.
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« Reply #16 on: August 26, 2009, 01:21:58 PM »
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« Reply #17 on: August 26, 2009, 03:08:04 PM »
Rose, Happy trails. It has been such a sad time for you. I hope the breather does you and your Mom a lot of good. You will be missed, looking forward to your return and reading stories of your adventures.

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« Reply #18 on: August 26, 2009, 03:39:13 PM »
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« Reply #19 on: August 26, 2009, 05:44:47 PM »
Our lovely Rose,  I will keep you and your Mum in my prayers as you go through this time of healing.  You will be missed, but we will be here waiting and anxious to hear all that you have been doing.  We love you dearly   :cuddle;
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« Reply #20 on: August 26, 2009, 09:15:54 PM »
Nice of you to share your story.....   Good luck to you ....
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« Reply #21 on: August 27, 2009, 04:42:06 AM »
I hope you and your mum will find the rest you dearly need.  Don't forget to get some sunshine, breathe deeply whenever possible and find other ways to let some of the weight off your shoulders.   :guitar:
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« Reply #22 on: August 27, 2009, 05:20:08 PM »
You have always been a very special family member. :grouphug;  We totally understand that you need this breather. So just do what you have to do.  And then please come back :cuddle;
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« Reply #23 on: August 29, 2009, 06:19:23 AM »
I'm so sorry to hear of your father's passing Rose. I know I haven't been around much lately, but don't worry, you'll be missed! And I'll be keeping you and your Mom in my thoughts and prayers.  :cuddle;
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« Reply #24 on: August 30, 2009, 10:17:32 AM »
Just called by to see how my IHD family are and to say THANK YOU so very much for all the support and good wishes, I'm still feeling fragile and still snowed under with 'red tape', letters and forms to sort but I do think of you all. Mum is doing OK, obviously distraught but being very brave bless her.   See you again soon. Rose xxxxx :grouphug;
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