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« on: December 24, 2008, 03:44:46 PM »

I found my self crying today over a man dead for over a year, Bill "Epoman" I came to his site and saw his posts and didn't realize they where old ones to me he was alive and I answered them as if he where.  I suppose that is a tribute to him that he isn't forgotten but still influences people like me.  I wish I could have talk to the man and not the memory but in a way he still lives. His ideas and posts still call to fellow kidney patients and encourages us,  though he is gone he is definitely not forgotten..... Melinoir
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« Reply #1 on: December 24, 2008, 03:46:52 PM »

 :thumbup;  Exactly. 
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Pyelonephritis (began at 8 mos old)
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« Reply #2 on: December 24, 2008, 03:52:25 PM »

you now know how we who "knew" him all feel.
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« Reply #3 on: December 24, 2008, 04:55:43 PM »

 :thumbup; Perfectly said Melinoir  :cuddle;
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« Reply #4 on: December 24, 2008, 06:26:58 PM »


He is still here.  :thumbup;
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« Reply #5 on: December 24, 2008, 06:30:34 PM »

He sure is.   :cheer:
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« Reply #6 on: December 24, 2008, 06:51:15 PM »

Bill never left.  His hands are still guiding all of us to speak the truth and to not be afraid.  He will always be our driving force.

Just as our dear Susie will always be our cheerleader.

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« Reply #7 on: December 24, 2008, 10:49:59 PM »

He passed one year to the date of my Mother (March 2nd).  Mom passed in 2006 and he passed 2007.  I feel it was he who told my Mother about this site and she directed me here in Sept 2007.  God love'em and take care of him.
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« Reply #8 on: December 24, 2008, 10:57:28 PM »

Melinoir, I love it when people 'get it'! And you definitely get it!!   Epoman lives on in this site!
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« Reply #9 on: December 25, 2008, 07:12:57 AM »

Nicely put, thanks.
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« Reply #10 on: June 08, 2009, 05:40:03 PM »

I've been rereading some of Bill's posts.  Where would I be emotionally today if it weren't for IHD?  Thanks Epoman.   :cuddle;
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« Reply #11 on: June 08, 2009, 05:51:18 PM »

When I found IHD it was through a web search on something I was trying to find out about dialysis. I can't remember what now. And I read and read through Epoman's posts.

He was talking to ME. And I wanted to be able to have a conversation with him. Then I realized that he had died and I just wept.

But I kept reading. And that is how I learned that I have a huge family here on IHD. Thank you, Epoman.

And thank you everyone else. When we share our pain it diminishes, and when we share our joys they grow. That is what IHD is all about.

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« Reply #12 on: June 09, 2009, 08:39:41 AM »

When I first came onto this site it took me a while to realize that Epoman was no longer with us.  I had read his post, I had knew he created this site.  I wish I would have known him. I guess in a way I kinda do through all the post.
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« Reply #13 on: June 09, 2009, 05:09:53 PM »

I found this site within weeks of my transplant, but not because I was doing research...but because of a typo.  I was working on geneology...since I was going to have several weeks off from work I thought I would jump into it.  My maiden name is Holcomb....prograf caused serious hand tremors....and I searched HAlcomb.   If that isn't spirit driven....I don't know what is.  Bill Halcomb reached out to me from somewhere and guided me right to where I needed to be.  He IS our leader, coach and guardian angel.  I won't miss him, because each time I read from this site....he is here.  Thanks Epoman.
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« Reply #14 on: June 09, 2009, 05:41:19 PM »

That is a great story, Wenchie.  Funny how many different ways we all found our direction to IHD. 
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« Reply #15 on: June 09, 2009, 07:39:14 PM »

I joined IHD right after Bill passed, and I wish I'd had the opportunity to get to know him. But, like everyone has said, Bill lives on through everyone here at IHD. Thank you, Bill.

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-Diagnosed with ESRD (born with one kidney, hypertension killed it) Jan 21st, 2007
-Started dialysis four days later in hospital (Baxter 1550-I think, then Gambro Phoenix)
-Started in-centre dialysis Feb 6th 2007 (Fres. 2008H)
-Started home hemo June 5th 2007 (NxStage/Pureflow)
-PD catheter placed June 6th 2008 (Bye bye NxStage, at least for now)
-Started CAPD July 4th, 2008
-PD catheter removed Dec 2, 2008-PD just wouldn't work, so I'm back on NxStage
-Kidney function improved enough to go off dialysis, Feb. 2011!!!!!
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« Reply #16 on: June 13, 2009, 07:53:22 AM »

Epoman used to say all the time that he wanted to build a site that would keep on even after his death.  He was not thinking about himself, but about others.
I am always gratified when I see that the site has not only continued, but has continued growing!
That is the tribute that he wanted.

Along with many of you, I am so grateful for this website.  It has made a total difference in my dealing with this challenge.   And I have gained a wonderful international family. :grouphug;

Thank you, Epoman!  May your memory live forever!
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« Reply #17 on: May 18, 2012, 10:56:10 AM »

I had no Idea myself......"I don't see myself being special; I just see myself having more responsibilities than the next man. People look to me to do things for them, to have answers."
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Dedicated to "Epoman. 

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« Reply #18 on: May 18, 2012, 07:39:22 PM »

 :2thumbsup;
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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