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« Reply #50 on: January 09, 2008, 02:42:33 PM »

How in the world did I miss this thread??

Anyway, Kari, I'm sorry things had to go the way they did, but I'm glad to hear that you're getting back to your life and looking forward to things. Please keep us updated on what you're up to and take care of yourself!
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« Reply #51 on: January 09, 2008, 03:29:51 PM »

Happy New Year to you as well. It's great to see a post from you. Take care of yourself and check in with us when you can.  :waving;
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« Reply #52 on: January 09, 2008, 03:56:58 PM »

Sounds like things may be turning out for you for the best. Glad to hear it.
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« Reply #53 on: January 09, 2008, 07:27:36 PM »

Thinking of you girlfriend and hoping nothing but the best comes your way  :waving;  Dont be a stranger ok, we love ya  :grouphug;
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« Reply #54 on: January 09, 2008, 09:46:25 PM »



Great to read you are moving forward Kari. Good Luck in Brooklyn!   :)
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« Reply #55 on: January 10, 2008, 02:26:27 AM »

thank you for sharing that with us.  we see you as part of the family and hope you will continue to let us know how you are doing.  i really appreciated the hopeful attitude that came through your posting.  You just keep on keeping on, girlfriend! :cuddle;
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« Reply #56 on: January 12, 2008, 03:18:06 AM »

Kari,

Sorry I did not see this until this morning-
so happy to read you are getting it together!
Happy New Year  :beer1;
Keep us all updated on how everything is going-
 :waving; :waving;

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« Reply #57 on: January 13, 2008, 11:05:47 AM »

i am sorry I did not see this thread until now also! I do not think Wade understands how lucky he was to have you that accepted him and his situation. There are not a lot of people waiting around to date people with small issues let alone renal failure!

You deserve so much better. I mean, if he moves without u just because of his parents. You would have always been number two in his life.

Take care of you.
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« Reply #58 on: March 27, 2008, 11:16:34 PM »

there are too many posts to keep up with!!!!

i feel retty selfish for only posting on this thread, but you are just too busy and i really cant keep up!

i miss wade every second of every day, he is in my dreams every single night, and im stilll havng a rough time. apparently he not only has met someone else, but he has moved in with her as well.

(deep breath)

im styaing out on long island through the summer - its lame, but im not ready to be on my own yet. i feel stupid fragile. i jst wish i meant something to someone who meant so much to me.

i miss you terribly, all of you.


xoxo kari
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« Reply #59 on: March 28, 2008, 03:49:18 AM »

You will find someone eventually. Don't rush things, you have some emotional baggage ( I mean this in a loving way)to sort out about you and Wade, once you are at peace with things the guy's will be all around and you can do the choosing. One day at a time. There are a lot of lonely people in the world. I wish you the best.  :-*
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« Reply #60 on: March 28, 2008, 03:57:17 AM »

Kari, Sorry to hear you are still emotionally involved. It takes time, everyone is different. The qualities you portrayed on these forums tells me you are a very special woman who deserves a very special man. Please know that sooner then later you will find him and be able to move forward. Please stay in touch...Boxman
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« Reply #61 on: March 28, 2008, 04:54:40 AM »

Kari  :cuddle; Let yourself grieve and then let yourself LIVE. You deserve it. You are a special person and someone just as special will come along when your ready. Please keep letting us know how your doing. We care.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #62 on: March 28, 2008, 05:03:32 AM »

Kari I missed this thread but I have just read all the way through it. I'm so sorry you're emotions are still in turmoil. You didn't deserve this and Wade certainly did not deserve your love for him. Take care. :grouphug;
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« Reply #63 on: March 28, 2008, 09:24:53 AM »

You do mean something to someone, look at all the people on here who care about you.  I agree with Sluff, take one day at a time and if that's too much then just take one hour at a time.  It will get better, I lost my husband and it's hard, but you can go on and you can have a life - just a different one.  Please know that we all care.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #64 on: March 28, 2008, 09:28:48 AM »

get on a computer in NY and keep in touch

you have knowledge and understanding, and we need that :'(

we still need you :thumbup;
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« Reply #65 on: March 28, 2008, 10:05:12 AM »

i'm so sorry! Wade has no idea what he lost. Please keep in touch more often. We care about you!  :cuddle; :cuddle;
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« Reply #66 on: March 28, 2008, 10:16:26 AM »

Kari, just remember wades new chica is a REBOUND. It takes time to get over someone you loved. :big hug:
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« Reply #67 on: March 29, 2008, 10:15:29 PM »

Kari, I'm sorry you're having such a hard time with losing Wade. As others have said, though, take all the time you need, and you'll find the right life for you when you're ready. Take care of yourself, and know that we miss you.
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« Reply #68 on: July 27, 2008, 03:48:53 PM »

Dear Kari,
I can't believe I just now saw this thread - over 7 months late!! I had been wondering about not seeing you on the boards.  I remember you, fondly, as you were the first person I made a connection with, here. You were/ARE sooo sweet.  I hope things are going well/better for you, these days.  I would like to add my post to all the others in saying *I miss you, too, and hope you'll keep in touch by letting us know how you're doing*.
Once family . . . always family . . .  :cuddle;

Huge hugs,
Charlene aka MyRenalRomance

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« Reply #69 on: July 27, 2008, 03:57:54 PM »

Always take care of yourself and take one day at a time..that is how I was able to make it, and I always tell people, the right one will come around the corner at the right time for you, don't give up on yourself.
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