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Title: Another newbie!
Post by: ndl0520 on April 10, 2008, 09:52:42 PM
Hello everyone,

My name is Noel and I'm new to this board & thought I introduce myself.  I am a new dialysis patient as of Jan 08.  I was diagnosed back in 2002 of having Polycystic Kidney Disease.  I'm 41 yrs. old and currently residing in California.  For the past six yrs, I've been fighting pretty hard to avoid going on dialysis till my body finally gave up & told me to stop fighting.  The last three months before I started dialysis was the worst feeling in my life.  I lost lots of weight due to a loss of appetite.  Uncontrollable vomiting along with naseau.  But now that I have started my hemodialysis, I feel much, much better than the way I was feeling the past six yrs. I'm currently going 3 times a week for 3 hours.  Since starting dialysis, I have given up alot of my life.  I'm about to resign my position as a police officer for the past 5 yrs.  I also, ended my 18 yr career in the Army & in the reserves.  Those were two careers that I will miss tremendously.  My finances has gone down since I am now receiving only disability pay.  I'm about to lose my health benefits in June.  Even though I am in tough situation, I have kept my spirits up.  There is no way I will let this disease put me or my family down.  I have a great support group from my family, dialysis unit, & friends.  Now, I have found a great site where people understands me with what I am going thru & where I could understand them also.  I am currently been tested for a possible kidney transplant.  From what the transplant coordinator has told me, that I am a perfect candidate for their kidney program.  But, since I don't have an immediate donor, I guess I will be waiting for 3-5 yrs till I am next on the list.  In the mean time, I will pursue another career and start going to school.  I've been doing alot of thinking of what to do with my future while sitting or laying on my chair being dialyzed.  But Lord willing, I do hope I will get a transplant soon and get a second chance in life.
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: Loretta on April 10, 2008, 10:03:29 PM
Welcome  :welcomesign; I hope you find help here on IHD. 
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: boxman55 on April 10, 2008, 10:25:37 PM
Welcome to IHD please know that everyone on this site is behind you 100% I look forward to your insight and please use this site to help you. Again welcome ndl0520


Boxman, Moderator
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: monrein on April 11, 2008, 04:47:15 AM
 :welcomesign; to this board Noel.  There is so much collective wisdom and such a wide range of experiences on this site.  Glad you're throwing yours into the mix.
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: Sluff on April 11, 2008, 04:52:03 AM
Welcome to ihatedialysis.com ndl0520,

Glad you found us, I hope we can be a comfort to you as you journey through ESRD and Dialysis. There are many members here that can relate to all the changes you are facing. I'm glad you are keeping your spirits up but don't be afraid to ask questions, read through the many pages here and remember that we are here for you. I hope you find a kidney soon.

Sluff/Admin
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: bolta72 on April 11, 2008, 04:58:50 AM
Welcome and great to see your spirts are up and your moving on and thanks for serving our country.
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: Ken Shelmerdine on April 11, 2008, 05:00:26 AM
Welcome Noel, you've found an excellent forum. I like your positive outlook. Anything you need to know just ask, there's lots of us on this forum who will be only to happy to help as best we can. :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: willieandwinnie on April 11, 2008, 05:36:12 AM
:welcomesign; Noel. You have found the perfect site. We are a great group, full of wisdom and support anytime you need us. Keep on posting.  :cuddle;
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: annabanana on April 11, 2008, 05:51:27 AM
 :welcomesign; Noel!
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: Bajanne on April 11, 2008, 07:14:32 AM
Welcome to our community!  We are so glad that you found us. I know that this site will be a great weapon in your dealing with this renal challenge.  It has been for me!  There is much information here.  As we like to say here at IHD - 'Knowledge is Power'.  I already like your attitude and see that you will be a great addition to our wonderful IHD family.  :grouphug;  So keep reading and keep posting.  Let us know what is going on with you - not nosy, just family!


Bajanne, Moderator
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: MyssAnne on April 11, 2008, 07:28:14 AM
Welcome, Noel!!! I'm glad you're here! You'll get plenty of support here, as well as laughs, hopefully!

 :welcomesign; :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: rose1999 on April 11, 2008, 08:10:07 AM
Hi Noel and welcome from the  :ukflag;.  Good to see you have such a positive attitude to life, hope you'll get a kidney soon. 

There are some great people on this board,they really are a family.

 :bunny:
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: Meinuk on April 11, 2008, 11:37:16 AM
Welcome Noel,

I started Dialysis in January 2007, so I think that I have a pretty recent memory of how terrible it feels.  I can tell you that it does get better.  Even when I was in center, it took a few months for my body to adjust to the treatments (I'm now doing home hemo on NxStage).  Let alone the impact that this has had on your work and mental status.  I was deeply depressed for the first six or seven months, then slowly, my spark started to return.  It is a slow path, but you are not alone.

IHD is a huge support for so many people - we are all in this together- Dialysis veterans and newbies.  Welcome aboard.

Best Wishes,

Anna
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: kellyt on April 11, 2008, 11:40:35 AM
:waving;  Glad you found this site.  You will LOVE it!

Thank you for the service you provided both as a Police Officer and as an Army Reservist.  Both extremely commendable positions!    :welcomesign;     :usaflag;
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: kimcanada on April 11, 2008, 12:03:49 PM
Hi and welcome!!!!

I am 41years also, and have been on dialysis for 1 year in January...  I can so relate how it feels better once you start dialysis.  I will look forward to reading your posts :)
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: NolaGail on April 11, 2008, 12:37:19 PM
A big  :welcomesign; Noel!

You have come to the right place for help and humor.  There is a great group of people here waiting to support you or just listen when you are having a bad day.  Visit here often!

Nola
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: twirl on April 11, 2008, 12:53:36 PM
Hey to U
I also have PKD
you lucky dog,you
I go 3 times a week for 4 hours, that last hour is the killer....
Glad you are here
IHD helps
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: Ohio Buckeye on April 11, 2008, 01:29:25 PM
 :welcomesign; Noel to the IHD Family!
I hope you get that 2nd chance at life also.
I'm glad you re feeling better.
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: rookiegirl on April 11, 2008, 01:58:51 PM
 :welcomesign; to IHD Family.  You come to the right place.  Look forward to all your posts.

 :waving;
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: paris on April 12, 2008, 06:54:03 AM
 :welcomesign; Glad you found us. There is so much information here and wonderful people to give support.  Love your attitude!
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: Psim on April 12, 2008, 07:57:23 AM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: Ang on April 12, 2008, 09:10:50 PM
 :welcomesign;  noel


  from   1  pkd  to  another  pkd,  i  wish  you  luck  with  it  all.

  any  questions  just  ask  and  i'll  help  if  i  can.
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: Romona on April 13, 2008, 11:45:50 AM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: kitkatz on May 04, 2008, 08:40:21 PM
Welcome.  Where in California are you located northern, or southern? I am southern California.  We have quite a few people in so CA. on this board.  Good to get to know you!


kitkatz, moderator
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: ndl0520 on May 05, 2008, 06:36:48 AM
Welcome.  Where in California are you located northern, or southern? I am southern California.  We have quite a few people in so CA. on this board.  Good to get to know you!


kitkatz, moderator
Hello KitKatz,


I'm from Southern California.  Currently residing near West Covina.  I truly enjoy this forum since I've signed up.  I'm glad I found this site.


Edited: Fixed quote tags - okarol/admin
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: oleboy on May 06, 2008, 05:26:49 AM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: Bryce on May 06, 2008, 05:56:49 AM
 :welcomesign; to the site
Title: Re: Another newbie!
Post by: ODAT on May 06, 2008, 10:14:03 AM
 :waving; Noel. Beautiful name. My mom is pre-dialysis and will be doing hemo when the time comes. She is holding at 16% GFR.

I have family in law enforcement and it is definitely not just a job - it is your family as well. Bonds are tight in the military and police force. Thanks for making your career one that helps us all.  :thx;

There's always someone around to talk to here. take care and see you around!