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Title: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Sluff on May 02, 2010, 02:40:07 PM
I have been thinking a lot lately about Karol and her family. Not in an overwhelming way but I realized that not a lot of people here understand what all Karol is going through in her life. I'm not going to say it all here but I just want everyone here to send some thanks and an encouraging word to Karol either here in this thread or PM. She is dealing with probably more than most of us have had to deal with lately and yet she comes here regardless, to take care of IHD and its members. No one loves you all or this site more than Karol I can promise you this.

Love you Karol and Thank you for everything you do here on IHD. It will never go unappreciated. :grouphug;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: lola on May 02, 2010, 02:55:16 PM
 :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug; You always have a way of making me feel better.
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: st789 on May 02, 2010, 03:02:15 PM
Concur.  She is always informative.
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: monrein on May 02, 2010, 03:19:27 PM
Absolutely right on the money Sluff.  I think of her as a good friend even though we've never met in person (I feel this way about many other members too)  and I wish I could lighten the stress she's under currently by even a little bit. 

Thanks Karol for all you do...for IHD and for awareness about kidney disease, for members individually and for showing, by example, how to lend support not only to your family and friends but indeed to complete strangers.   :cuddle;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: glitter on May 02, 2010, 03:20:31 PM
I appreciate her always having a kind word for everyone.   :flower; :flower; :flower; :flower; :bandance;


THANK YOU!!
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Darthvadar on May 02, 2010, 03:39:44 PM
Yep...

Kerol's always been very supportive to me when Mum's not well...

Hope everything works out for you and Jenna, Karol
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: breezysummerday on May 02, 2010, 04:13:46 PM
Thank You Karol, for all that you do.  You are truly appreciated!
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: jbeany on May 02, 2010, 05:10:05 PM
Karol, hon, you are a gem!

When I was in the hospital, she called, sent cards, and even took time out of her trip to Paris to send me a post card and best of all, light a candle for me in Notre Dame.  How cool is that?
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: galvo on May 02, 2010, 06:03:42 PM
Okarol is the best!!!
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: kitkatz on May 02, 2010, 07:14:34 PM
Okarol is a friend. And I have met her.  She takes really good care of us, even though she has a lot going on right now.  Hugs my friend.  :grouphug; :grouphug;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Jean on May 02, 2010, 07:32:51 PM
I too have met Karol. She always makes you feel as if you are old friends. We do appreciate everything she does for us, not only in the information field, but her compassion for others, no matter what is going on in her own life.
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Zach on May 02, 2010, 07:53:11 PM
 :-*
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: RichardMEL on May 02, 2010, 08:03:26 PM
Well said Sluff! Totally agree with you. Karol often puts aside the stuff she has to deal with, which is considerable, to put into IHD, and support our members as much as she can- and most of it without a lot of thanks or appreciation shown. This is one way to show it! Thanks for taking the lead Sluff!

3 cheers for Karol!!! Hip Hip Hooray!  :bow; :bow; :bow; :bow;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: MooseMom on May 02, 2010, 08:15:32 PM
I wish there was a more concrete way we could be of more practical help to Karol and her family.  If anyone can think of anything, let me know.  I know about Jenna having difficulty keeping her transplant, but I confess to not knowing if there are other complications in Okarol's life.  ESRD rarely happens in a vacuum, and it tends to just exacerbate other difficulties and make them that much harder to deal with.  But Okarol always has time for all of us, and that is a rare thing; I appreciate her so much and wish I could do more to help.  Thank you for starting this thread; it is always nice to show our gratitude.  Thank you, Okarol, for everything.  You know we have your back.  All our love to Jenna and the rest of your family, too.  Life is not easy for any of you, we know.  Please let us support you in any way you see fit.
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Sunny on May 02, 2010, 10:21:03 PM
Thanks Karol for everything you do for this site.
I particularly like all of the articles you find and post. I appreciate all of your work  here and the efforts you give to all of us, even when your own life must be so filled with issues.
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: okarol on May 02, 2010, 11:47:10 PM
 :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
Ok that made me cry. Thanks so much.

I know life is not always smooth, but with Jenna's rejection, my mom's lung cancer, the economy affecting my kids employment, and having another daughter all the way in NY at college, it's a rollercoaster lately. Then, of course, I worry about all of you, and Jenna's donor, and other family members... eeek, start listing stuff and it can make you crazy!  :urcrazy;

 :thx; Thanks for the kind words. Thank you Sluff, for being my rock.

I love you all.  :-*
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: paul.karen on May 03, 2010, 07:26:51 AM
 :beer1; To Okarol.

Who can find the good in everyone  :2thumbsup;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: del on May 03, 2010, 04:26:04 PM
A toast to okarol!  :beer1;  :flower; :flower; :flower;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Rerun on May 03, 2010, 04:31:38 PM
Karol you are one of the smartest women I know.  And if you don't know something or we don't know something you find out for us.

We love you!          :flower;  Thank you for spending your time on us.
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Jie on May 03, 2010, 10:39:03 PM
Best wishes!
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: YLGuy on May 04, 2010, 07:25:50 AM
 :2thumbsup;  :thx;  :thx;  :thx;  :thx;  :thx;  :thx;  :thx;  :thx;  :thx;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: ODAT on May 05, 2010, 10:30:52 AM
 :cuddle;

Want to add my hugs too! Seriously, does anyone have as many posts as Okarol?! Amazing, caring, and thoughtful woman who brings comfort and answers to everyone on IHD.

I pray things start smoothing out for you and your family.

Kim
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: peleroja on May 05, 2010, 10:50:32 AM
I agree.  I get a lot of good info from Karol to give to my support group.  Thanks for all your good work, Karol, in spite of what is going on in your life.
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: harley08 on May 05, 2010, 11:36:08 AM
Since the first day I came to this site before you were a moderator I thought of how wonderful and understanding and what a great friend you are to so many people. You are the rock for not just your family!!!! I pray things up for you soon.  :grouphug; :grouphug;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: thegrammalady on May 05, 2010, 11:48:52 AM
karol is one of the neatest people i've ever met!  it's an honor to count you among my friends. thanks for everything you do for this site. you are loved.
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Bajanne on May 05, 2010, 01:29:26 PM
A big ditto to all that everyone has said.  Having had the special privilege of meeting Okarol I need to say that she is a beautiful person inside and out.
Love you loads, Karol, and appreciate you loads more! :cuddle;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: okarol on May 05, 2010, 05:11:14 PM
 :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*
I just got off the phone - trying to get Meals on Wheels for my mom - boy I hope it works.
I am behind in my census work - hope the Feds don't stop by to check on me.
My cold is almost better, whew!
Anyway, all I have to do is come read this thread and I feel better!!
 :-* :thx; :-*
 :shy;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Chris on May 06, 2010, 07:46:41 AM
I've told her before, but she won't listen, She should take a break or a vacation from the pc, but she is addicted to it ;D
If she was on Survivor (If that show is still around), she would be the first to try to be kicked off so she can have computer access to keep in contact with everyone.  :rofl;
 
Your much appreciated around here Karol, but family and you come first. Take a break at times and get as much rest as possible.
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Ang on May 06, 2010, 05:56:58 PM
don't  get  on  here  to often,  but  agree  wholeheartily :bow;


sorry  to  hear  about  jenna
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Mimi on May 06, 2010, 08:11:41 PM
I just said yesterday we need to guve you an award.  I don't know how you have the energy to do all you do.  You are a most lovely helper and friend.  Prayers and cares to you, Jenna and the rest of your family.

Love, Mimi
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: aharris2 on May 07, 2010, 12:45:40 AM
 :clap; okarol
 :cuddle;
Just for you, I wish the Lakers much success in the playoffs!  :cheer:
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: okarol on May 07, 2010, 09:05:10 AM
 :flower; Thank you.  :shy;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: paris on May 11, 2010, 05:57:35 PM
Everyday I plan on posting here.  But, I keep trying to find the right words.  I feel like Okarol has been a part of my life forever.  She is always just a click away.  We have shared some special moments together.  Sluff's Vegas wedding!  Holding hands during Goofynina's service. We were holding tight and crying and then after the nun said "Jeesuuuuussss" for the 100th time, we started giggling!  You know how it is when you are so incredibly sad and something strikes you as funny and you just can't help but smile? That is what happened to us. Vandie was there and was doing the same thing!  I have met Jenna and she has met Beth, so we feel very connected as Mothers.  And who could forget Chicago?  Chris and Patton with all the phones, GPS's and laptops!    Simply put - I love Okarol.  She has made this disease so much easier to deal with.  She is my Hero, my inspiration and guiding light.   I would walk through fire for her.   My heart aches for the trials she's going through right now. I lift her in prayer and ask God to hold her tight right now. 
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: okarol on May 12, 2010, 09:45:05 PM
Sluff, lola, st789, monrein, glitter, Darthvadar, breezysummerday, jbeany, galvo, kitkatz, jean, Zach, RichardMEL, MooseMom, sunny, paul.karen, del, Rerun, Jie, YLGuy, ODAT, peleroja, harley08, thegrammalady, Bajanne, Chris, Ang, Mimi, aharris2, paris

 :cheer: Thank you!  :cheer: Thank you!  :cheer: Thank you!


Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Bajanne on May 13, 2010, 06:41:31 AM
Everyday I plan on posting here.  But, I keep trying to find the right words.  I feel like Okarol has been a part of my life forever.  She is always just a click away.  We have shared some special moments together.  Sluff's Vegas wedding!  Holding hands during Goofynina's service. We were holding tight and crying and then after the nun said "Jeesuuuuussss" for the 100th time, we started giggling!  You know how it is when you are so incredibly sad and something strikes you as funny and you just can't help but smile? That is what happened to us. Vandie was there and was doing the same thing!  I have met Jenna and she has met Beth, so we feel very connected as Mothers.  And who could forget Chicago?  Chris and Patton with all the phones, GPS's and laptops!    Simply put - I love Okarol.  She has made this disease so much easier to deal with.  She is my Hero, my inspiration and guiding light.   I would walk through fire for her.   My heart aches for the trials she's going through right now. I lift her in prayer and ask God to hold her tight right now.

Very beautifully expressed, Paris.  It brought tears to my eyes (as well as a smile).
I just love my IHD family!!
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: boswife on May 13, 2010, 09:46:51 PM
How amazingly loved you should feel :-)  I hope life is giving you some rest by now and that it's looking up.  Bless ya, and thank you for all you do and share of yourself...  Amazing woman, mother, friend...  Thanks!
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: okarol on May 13, 2010, 11:56:33 PM
How amazingly loved you should feel :-) 

I do, thank you!  :thx;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Slywalker on May 14, 2010, 08:06:12 AM
Just saw this thread and what fun it was to read it. 
OKarol - smile for your are so loved by so many, including me.  You touch people's lives in ways you don't even know about.  You are one big solid rock for IHD. 

Thank you OKarol for everything you do for this online community.   :thx;  :thx;  :thx;

Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: okarol on August 06, 2010, 12:54:12 PM
I just took look at this again, made me smile.  :)
We do what we do here on IHD because we love all of you!
There's nothing like the support and understanding you get from someone who has been in your place.
The forum would be nothing without the mods and members who participate here.
And the fact that we can laugh and cry together makes it even better.
Have a great day IHD!!! \ :flower;

Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Zach on August 06, 2010, 01:52:58 PM
 :wine; :-*
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: okarol on August 06, 2010, 03:05:59 PM
:wine; :-*
;) :beer1; :-*
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Jess21 on August 06, 2010, 09:32:02 PM
 :bandance; O  :bandance; K :bandance; A  :bandance; R  :bandance; O  :bandance; L  :bandance;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: okarol on August 06, 2010, 09:44:25 PM
 :-* J :-* E :-* S :-* S :-*
     :thx; :thx; :thx;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Sluff on August 08, 2010, 08:48:17 PM
Hope things are getting better, now that Jenna had a bit of good news for a change.   :grouphug;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: RichardMEL on August 08, 2010, 09:43:46 PM
Well bugger it.. I LOVE OKAROL (and yes it's what you think!). She's a gem and a hell of a mum, and I loved hearing her on kidney talk!!!

 :shy;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: okarol on August 08, 2010, 09:48:28 PM
 :cheer: Yes, good news is a welcome change Sluffbunny.  :bunny:

 :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* Thanks Richard. I love you too!
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: tamara on August 10, 2010, 02:39:28 AM
Just caught on to this thread and all I will say is :

 :guitar:

Okarol's the best
Chuck out the rest

repeat

Okarol's the best
Chuck out the rest

repeat

Okarol's the best
Chuck out the rest

repeat

Okarol's the best
Chuck out the rest

 :guitar:

well you get the idea.......  love ya xxx ooo

Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: okarol on August 10, 2010, 09:47:00 AM
 :rofl; thanks Tamara
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Ken Shelmerdine on August 10, 2010, 06:55:02 PM
Just read this thread and I wholeheartedly agree with all the posts. Karol is the rock of IHD. I've had telephone conversations with her and she has a knack of making you feel completely at ease. Karol for all you do for IHD, a big thank-you. If you were in England I'd nominate you for an MBE.
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: okarol on August 10, 2010, 07:17:06 PM
 :2thumbsup; Thanks Ken!
What's an MBE?  :secret;
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: Bajanne on August 10, 2010, 08:28:48 PM
Member of the British Empire - one of the highest honours a commoner can get.  The other one is OBE - Order of the British Empire.  Don't remember which is higher.  When we were a colony, we would listen out to hear who got one of these from the queen.
Title: Re: I LOVE OKAROL ( not what you think)
Post by: okarol on August 10, 2010, 09:02:22 PM
Well, Ken, what an honor!  :shy;

 :thx; Thanks for the info Bajanne!