My grandmother died at 40 with PKD renal failure the year they came out with dialysisMy father committed suicide at 38 because he couldn't live with the thought of being on dialysis in the coming months.I went into failure when I was 38. I had controlled hypertension starting when I was 12.My sister was 40 when her PKD kidneys failure. No hypertension
It is surprising Cordelia, that medical staff didn't prepare you more for what may come in the future. But I guess it's partly because they just cannot predict how each patient will fare. My dad had high blood pressure when he tried to join the army at 18 years old, and was on BP meds sporadically until his cerebral hemorrhage 10 years later. In contrast, my 2 sisters and my brother all have PKD, but none have progressed to the point of needing dialysis or transplant, and they are all over 50 years old. They control their blood pressure, but so far have been very lucky.Sad about your birth mom, but I hope the adoptive family your grew up with was a good situation.