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« Reply #25 on: March 26, 2008, 09:00:55 AM »
Live a full live. 

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« Reply #26 on: March 26, 2008, 09:22:07 AM »
 :big hug: Please take heart in knowing that while this is not easy on anyone, you (the family) are fulfilling his wishes.

My prayers are with you and your family during this time  :grouphug;.

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« Reply #27 on: March 26, 2008, 10:02:22 AM »
 He's going the way I would like to go, as I direct it, not as a hospital directs it. It takes a lot of courage to do so, but he's looking out for his family right now, knowing they would rather see him this way, than a prisoner of tubes and machinery. May he rest in peace, and may your family, and you, be at peace, knowing he made the decision for you, as well as for him.

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« Reply #28 on: March 29, 2008, 11:54:55 AM »
My uncle died peacefully yesterday, after being in a deep, calm sleep for the last two days. My aunt and three of my cousins were with him. I'm so glad his last days were easy, but more than that, I'm glad he had such a full, good life, bringing much love and joy into the world.

Thanks to you all for your understanding and support. You are the best.
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« Reply #29 on: March 29, 2008, 11:57:07 AM »
I'm so sorry Psim.  :cuddle; I'm relieved to know he went peacefully. I'll say a prayer for him and your family.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #30 on: March 29, 2008, 12:02:16 PM »
Psim, I am sorry for your loss. RIP uncle  :grouphug;
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« Reply #31 on: March 29, 2008, 12:04:15 PM »
 :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #32 on: March 29, 2008, 12:42:27 PM »
So sorry but at least you know in your heart.. he had a full life and left the way he wanted..
My thoughts are with you.
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« Reply #33 on: March 29, 2008, 12:49:55 PM »
May his afterlife be peaceful and calm.  I hope your are all right.  :grouphug; for the entire family.
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« Reply #34 on: March 29, 2008, 01:03:42 PM »
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« Reply #35 on: March 29, 2008, 02:10:34 PM »
I'm so sorry, but I'm glad he went so peacefully.  :cuddle;
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« Reply #36 on: March 29, 2008, 02:59:29 PM »
Sorry to hear this but glad he went in a peaceful way.
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« Reply #37 on: March 29, 2008, 03:24:09 PM »
Oh hon I am so pleased though, that he died so peacefully. It really helps the family to accept it a little better, that's my hope anyway. 

Peace and love to you, with hugs, and the same to your aunt and their family.
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« Reply #38 on: March 29, 2008, 09:08:15 PM »
I'm glad he was surrounded by those who loved him most. May his entire family be as at peace with it as he was at the end.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #39 on: March 29, 2008, 11:48:22 PM »
My thoughts are with you, you and your Uncle's family should have no regrets, he had the passing he wanted.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #40 on: March 30, 2008, 08:51:53 AM »
My caring thoughts and prayers and with you and your uncle's family.  He went with dignity, surrounded by love.  Way to go!  :grouphug;
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« Reply #41 on: March 30, 2008, 04:50:22 PM »
My condolences.  It is never easy to let someone go, but it is even worse to see them suffer.
God Bless you and your family.

Love, Mimi
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« Reply #42 on: March 30, 2008, 05:41:46 PM »
my wish would be to go on my own teams as your uncle. god bless you and your family
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« Reply #43 on: March 30, 2008, 06:32:33 PM »
He left on his own terms, I respect that. I just hope you and your family are doing alright.   :grouphug; My condolences for your loss.
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« Reply #44 on: March 30, 2008, 07:04:43 PM »
I hope all of you are doing ok, especially knowing he was at peace.  It is never easy letting go and saying goodbye.  Keeping you in my prayers :cuddle;
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« Reply #45 on: March 31, 2008, 07:33:58 AM »
My thoughts and prayers continue for you and your family during your time of loss.  The loss of a loved one is never easy, but you can be comforted by the fact that you honored his wishes.  That knowledge will be something you can lean on in the coming days, months. . .

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In His no-slip grip!

Living donor has one more test to go (4-14-2008).  Her left kidney could be mine in a few months.  No surgery date yet.
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« Reply #46 on: March 31, 2008, 08:02:01 AM »
Hugs for each of you who is left behind. I'm glad your uncle was able to choose for himself what was right for him and that he left this world in peace and with such a supportive family.
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