I think that Epoman was a smart dude, Karol! But...maybe instead of calling it the "News Article Section," he should have named it "Karol's stuff." That's the first place I go when I log on to this site, Karol! Without you, I'd be uninformed and in the dark. Thanks for all you do!
That's okay Zach You can do no wrong in my book!
When you give people the alternative between death and accepting anything else, the fact that they generally choose the alternative can hardly be cited as evidence for how positive that alternative is! So the fact that 80% of patients continue to find dialysis preferable to suicide hardly means that dialysis is something to be grateful for, but instead just shows how difficult it is -- because of blind, irrational, instinctive forces compelling us to keep living however hideous our lives may be -- deliberately to choose death as an escape.
Stauffenberg, my husbands life, as well as a lot of other people's lives, is NOT hideous!!! I really don't like you suggesting that it is. If everybody had your opinion there would be very few people in this world!!! The world seems to be a much better place when we focus on the good things instead of always trying to down everything!! Maybe you should try looking on the positive side of life. Just a suggestion.
I believe that potential home dialysis patients should speak the truth about how they feel about being hooked up to a machine that invades their home and forces them 'to build their own scaffold' rather than allowing them to sit back, relax, and let a professional do the job. If their negative feelings discourage some dialysis providers from offering more home dialysis, then the supply will have simply matched the demand.
Look for the middle ground, we are sick, but we are surviving by any means possible. For me, and others that is home hemo. It is a positive and beneficial therapy. I am also on the UNOS list, and I have had newspaper articles done about my home hemo experience, and I'll have a reporter following my transplant as it happens. I expect highs and lows, just don't take them out of context to advance your biased point. I know that you are the voice for those who just can't handle home hemo, and for those who are suffering on dialysis - but you are no longer walking in their shoes. Give them some credit that they can have good days too.
I guess, Bertolt Brecht was right:Der Mensch ist gar nicht gut, d’rum hau ihn auf den Huthast du ihn auf den Hut gehaut, dann wird er vielleicht gut.Denn für dieses Leben ist der Mensch nicht gut genugdarum hau ihn eben ruhig auf den Hut.
Another line from Brecht's 'Dreigroschenoper' I remember from that song might also be appropriate to this discussion: "Der Mensch ist gar nicht gluecklich."