Trying to remember what I wrote, word-for-word, before being timed out and losing everything....So, O.K. 1: I missed an 'e' out for referenced thru (sorry that should be through) typing too (note everyone there are to 'o's in the quantifier 'too') fast 2: I guess you didn't like '&" - a common abbreviation for 'and' and '=ly' for equally 3: or perhaps '@' for at, but everyone knows that's what it is, as it _is_ in all our e-mail addresses! 4: I dislike the youngsters' use of 'super-crunched' text on their mobiles, but commonly used 'computer speak' stuff I thought would've been O.K. (sorry I mean all correct)I would _never_ front up on a site/bulletinboard/whatever and make my very first posting a criticismof other people's grammar/spelling/syntax as our 'friend' did above, especially a site visited by sickpeople whom one could expect to give a little more leeway to! O.K., so some post are a little difficultto decipher and others are full fo spelling erros, but I'll live with that, rather than alienate posters. My spelling is fine thanx (oops I mean thanks), any errors are usually typos (so shoot me!), and Inever use spellchecker as I'd only get the American version anyway. Having my English 'corrected'by it is a total insult ! O.K. Ep' delete my posts if you want - after all it _is_ your site. I'll simply go into background lurk mode I must say though, I'm surprised you let this cheeky clown indfluence you enough to install this thread. See ya mate!
((Obviously as a senile old fool, I got confused, but for some reason I thought Odin had made a complaintand Epoman's creation of this thread was in response to that. RE-reading it all, yet again, I can see that isnot the case. I stand corrected))...and exactly _why_ would it be "the worst" post ever, Ep' ?An analysis point by point if you like.I rather fail to see why it denotes "total lack of respect for myself and this site",as I rather expected a friendly, helpful, easy-going group here, which is how I approached it.I have to say, I do like the idea that the site will continue and our posts still sitting here onit, after we current mob have all expired. However, we are individuals, with flaws. I'd like tothink our characters show through, at least a bit, and I am quite willing to have a warts'n'allversion of mine visible on here....and I was rather interested, reading back through the thread to see my fellowAustralian Tamara referred to as a "smart ass" - which should really be "smart arse"by the way, denoting 'bottoms', rather than beasts of burden. Babi68 is still around, but I think you also scared off Mel. The 'bye and good luck'on her 2nd posting on her INtro thread seemed to indicate she was gone...I senther a direct post encouraging her to stick around, but got no reply. Shame really, asanother 'mature-age' surfer not too far away, I thought we might've met up sometime.Oh well, we move on. ...we seem to be having an affirmation on this thread, of the belief by many of us'outsiders' that U.S.A citizens are somewhat too 'P.C.' for their own good....anyway, over to you ( possibly my last post here? ...and I was beginning to feel 'at home' )
NO I didn't scare off "Mel" I banned her.
Quote from: Epoman on March 23, 2006, 10:25:57 PMNO I didn't scare off "Mel" I banned her. You banned Mel? That's ridiculous. I just went back and read all of her posts, and an absolute site ban is pretty extreme. Yes I understand the sacrifices you have made for this site, such as hard work and monetary values, however I do not believe that this gives you the right to ban someone from the site because they may not think the exact same ways as you. I also do not think that you should be so hard on others for their grammar or modes of communicating especially in the cases of "non-North Americans". Yes i think that those who are just lazy, and do not double check what they have written should show a little respect, and some pride. But I do not think that you should be so harsh on someone who has an entirely different dialect, even though they speak the same language as you. You said that Bear's last post was the "worst ever". I do not see how it was the worst post ever. I understood everything he said. It may not have been the way I would have said it, but I'm sure that if he was speaking out loud in real life, the ways that we would say things would be completely different. I know that you put copious amounts of time and effort into this site, and we all greatly appreciate it, however I think you should also show some gratitude and respect to your members, especially the ones who post on a regular basis, as if it were not for them, this site would be just a pretty webpage without an excellent message. I hope that I have not come off as disrespectful, as I give you nothing BUT my utmost respect, but I just wish that you would be a little more "liberal" towards some of your frequent "posters" and try not to be so stern as to not scare away future members/contributors.-Hype
Wow... no wonder you hate dialysis you have control issues. The internet must be a source of frustration.Let go, let Bob.