Hi skinnacat.I have been on dialysis seven years and started my own business after being on it six months and now I work full-time and have only recently had a couple of issues but I seem to be on top of them now. I am on hemo and a couple of my friends over here have been on it over 30 years. They have never wanted to have a transplant so they accepted their fate and forged on. They are both happy and healthy. When you wake up in the morning you have two options. Stay in bed and feel sorry for yourself or smile and be thankful you are here to enjoy another day and get up and do it. I know it is hard some days but you will feel better for it. The more normal your life is, the less you will feel like you are missing out.