Are you sure COBRA would only cover your wife? That surprises me.
My husband became disabled 14 yers ago and we had been paying for cobra, then cobra extension, then Blue Shield since then, and our whole family has been covered. He is now on Medicare too, but cannot drop the Blue Shield as then rest of us would not have insurance. VERY expensive - just bumped up to $2500 a month, but we gotta have it.
Why didn't you go with Medicare? That was the prudent option. But, it's your choice.
With all due respect to the original poster, access to D is essential to life. I find it unimaginable that someone would first commit to an interestate move, and then work out access to D. There is no way I would commit to a move from my home area without being certain I had the D arrangements made in the new location.
Also, if you don't have insurance I believe you can go to the hospital to get dialysis... of course you will have the bills to contend with until you get insurance situated but you should be able to get dialysis one way or the other. Also, if you don't have insurance I believe you can go to the hospital to get dialysis... of course you will have the bills to contend with until you get insurance situated but you should be able to get dialysis one way or the other.