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« on: May 06, 2013, 05:48:27 AM »
I speak from the heart when I say you will be missed and you were loved here at IHD.

Love you Aurora


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« Reply #1 on: May 06, 2013, 06:16:34 AM »
when I saw this on FB i was heartbroken, she will forever be missed..... :'(
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« Reply #2 on: May 06, 2013, 08:26:31 AM »
My BananaJane.  Only because I could not pronounce  "Bajanne".  I will so miss you and your tender heart.  You are in a better place and I look forward to meeting you someday.

RIP My fellow Moderator    :police:
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« Reply #3 on: May 06, 2013, 08:36:16 AM »
She will be missed. She was so upbeat and fun!  Truly sad to hear about this. So damn frustrating , this damn disease.
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« Reply #4 on: May 06, 2013, 09:43:29 AM »
What a very sad day for all of here on IHD. I am so sorry to hear this.
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« Reply #5 on: May 06, 2013, 10:33:03 AM »
Patsy Aurora Barker was a part of the admin team for the last 8 years. We got to meet at one of our IHD Las Vegas Meet-ups, a really lovely person. She lived in the British Virgin Islands but always felt nearby. She was very close with her daughter Sam, and 2 grandchildren, who she loved with all her heart.
We will miss you sweet friend. Rest in Peace dear Aurora. "Bajanne"
 :'( :'( :'(
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
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« Reply #6 on: May 06, 2013, 10:43:14 AM »
I don't want to read this --- I don't want to know this -- I don't want this to be happening.  I am glad I got to meet her, but her online presence was powerful also.  She was strong in her faith and lived it everyday.  She would be the first one to rejoice that she is HOME and done with kidney failure.  But, I adored her and will miss her sweet spirit.   I was her Secret Santa this year and I made sure there were presents for Sam and her 2 boys also.  They all loved each other so much.

I am so very sorry for everyone.   I have another friend who is hovering between home on earth and the final Home.  In the next day or two, he will be gone too.  I ache for all who are losing loved ones.   Especially, all who loved our Sister Bajanne.
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« Reply #7 on: May 06, 2013, 10:50:26 AM »
Thank you for all of your years of superb service to IHD, Bajanne. There will never be another like you, dear girl. You made me and countless others feel like we had found a place where we would always belong.
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« Reply #8 on: May 06, 2013, 10:53:18 AM »
My favorite phrase she used was "sending healing prayers".   I thought her healing prayers had to be more powerful than anyones prayers.   :pray;
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« Reply #9 on: May 06, 2013, 11:16:33 AM »
 :'( :'( :'(
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« Reply #10 on: May 06, 2013, 01:16:22 PM »
I'm SO saddened to hear of Bajanne's death....

I remember her wise words and comforting thoughts when Mum hasn't been well...

May her gentle soul rest in peace....


An Irish blessing for a departed friend...

May the road rise to meet you.

May the wind be always at your back.

May the sun shine warm upon your face.

May the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again,

May the Lord hold you in the palm of His hand.
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Cared for my late mum, Elsie who had Kidney Failure... Darling mum died on July 15th 2014... May her gentle soul rest in peace....
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« Reply #11 on: May 06, 2013, 02:10:54 PM »
I will miss her with all my heart, she was such a pure spirit, one of the best people I have ever known.
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« Reply #12 on: May 06, 2013, 04:01:43 PM »
When the words decide to make sense instead of the tears I have now, hopefully I will be able to write something for Bajanne and her family. 
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« Reply #13 on: May 06, 2013, 04:08:17 PM »
Prayers to her family for all that is needed; Fair winds and following seas, rest well Aurora, you will be missed.
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« Reply #14 on: May 06, 2013, 04:48:31 PM »
I just saw this. I am so sorry....I will be holding Bajanne and her family in my prayers.
Godspeed, Aurora, go with God.
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« Reply #15 on: May 06, 2013, 05:14:37 PM »
RIP   :(
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« Reply #16 on: May 06, 2013, 05:43:17 PM »
Thinking of her family and hoping they get comfort from knowing that people all over the world loved her too.   :grouphug;
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« Reply #17 on: May 06, 2013, 08:20:41 PM »
Im so sad.. May God bless and comfort her family.. Rest in peace our friend..
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« Reply #18 on: May 06, 2013, 08:39:14 PM »
This news is just so sad.  She will be dearly missed.
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« Reply #19 on: May 06, 2013, 09:09:10 PM »
May she Rest In Peace!
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« Reply #20 on: May 06, 2013, 10:31:41 PM »
My heart aches for her family.God bless.
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« Reply #21 on: May 06, 2013, 10:58:02 PM »
This was a shock to see on Facebook. Just seemed like she posted recently, but in reality it was a month ago in the thread I read.
RIP Bajanne
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« Reply #22 on: May 06, 2013, 11:26:26 PM »
Quote from: Chris on May 06, 2013, 10:58:02 PM
This was a shock to see on Facebook. Just seemed like she posted recently, but in reality it was a month ago in the thread I read.
RIP Bajanne

She just posted yesterday. I am sure this was a shock to everyone.
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Jenna is our daughter, bad bladder damaged her kidneys.
Was on in-center hemodialysis 2003-2007.
7 yr transplant lost due to rejection.
She did PD Sept. 2013 - July 2017
Found a swap living donor using social media, friends, family.
New kidney in a paired donation swap July 26, 2017.
Her story ---> https://www.facebook.com/WantedKidneyDonor
Please watch her video: http://youtu.be/D9ZuVJ_s80Y
Living Donors Rock! http://www.livingdonorsonline.org -
News video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-7KvgQDWpU
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« Reply #23 on: May 07, 2013, 03:02:16 PM »
This is just such a shock. Bajanne seemed to be in a really good place in her life. I'm so sorry.
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« Reply #24 on: May 07, 2013, 03:14:14 PM »
Bajanne, you became my friend and mentor when I needed one badly.  I will miss you always and wish you peace in eternity. 
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