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« Reply #75 on: April 17, 2007, 08:12:02 PM »
My hubby lets it all hang out. lol Actually he keeps it taped. (his cath.) ;D
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« Reply #76 on: April 17, 2007, 08:31:35 PM »
Quote from: Sluff on April 17, 2007, 07:59:17 PM
Quote from: Duane on April 17, 2007, 07:54:15 PM
oooh nasty!

That comment sure doesn't boost anyone's self esteem. I think it's great that the people can get over the self conscientious of the tube associated with PD. It's a fact of treatment with this type of dialysis.

Now Sluff, maybe Duane didnt mean that in a bad way,  now if he would have said, ewww nasty, then maybe, but nooo, he said OOOOH NASTY, kinda like NASTAY ;)    at least that is what i am hoping how he meant it :P
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« Reply #77 on: April 17, 2007, 08:32:01 PM »
Quote from: Kathleen on April 17, 2007, 08:12:02 PM
My hubby lets it all hang out. lol Actually he keeps it taped. (his cath.) ;D

Which tube is taped...hehe >:D
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« Reply #78 on: April 17, 2007, 08:40:08 PM »
Quote from: Sluff on April 17, 2007, 08:32:01 PM
Quote from: Kathleen on April 17, 2007, 08:12:02 PM
My hubby lets it all hang out. lol Actually he keeps it taped. (his cath.) ;D

Which tube is taped...hehe >:D

 :rofl;  only you amigo, only you, lol
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« Reply #79 on: April 17, 2007, 08:48:52 PM »
Quote from: Sluff on April 17, 2007, 08:32:01 PM
Quote from: Kathleen on April 17, 2007, 08:12:02 PM
My hubby lets it all hang out. lol Actually he keeps it taped. (his cath.) ;D

Which tube is taped...hehe >:D

lmao. I knew someone would say that. ;D Is that a rocket in your pocket, or you just happy to see me. Yep, thats what I ask my hubby all the time. lol
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« Reply #80 on: April 18, 2007, 12:48:57 AM »
Quote from: Kathleen on April 17, 2007, 08:48:52 PM
Quote from: Sluff on April 17, 2007, 08:32:01 PM
Quote from: Kathleen on April 17, 2007, 08:12:02 PM
My hubby lets it all hang out. lol Actually he keeps it taped. (his cath.) ;D

Which tube is taped...hehe >:D

lmao. I knew someone would say that. ;D Is that a rocket in your pocket, or you just happy to see me. Yep, thats what I ask my hubby all the time. lol

Kathleen as long as your hubby is still saying that ... i am sure you are happy to see him. It took me along time to get use to the cath hanging out of my belly. My husband has never cared but I did. My self-esteem went down hill fast. Trying to resume a "normal" life on dialysis is not always easy. Slowly I learnt not to worry anymore.   ::)   8)
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« Reply #81 on: April 18, 2007, 01:02:09 AM »
Wattle

Hubby's cath is a part of him, I don't think nothing of it. I know if I was on pd hubby would think the same way. I'll be honest with ya, it has never bother me at all.
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« Reply #82 on: April 18, 2007, 05:06:36 AM »
Love conquers all things.  :thumbup;
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« Reply #83 on: May 11, 2007, 03:39:12 PM »
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Love conquers all things.  :thumbup;

Yeah!
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« Reply #84 on: May 12, 2007, 07:02:05 AM »
 :bump;

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Hephs cath really bothered me at first, but now...........................

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« Reply #85 on: May 12, 2007, 09:56:56 AM »
When i was on dialysis the first time i was married. I had a catheter i always called "tubage". It was in my chest and hung out a bit. I was very self conscience about it. My ex wife and were not having sex at the time. I knew she couldn't stand the tubage.  I did notice my sex drive had diminished a bit. Although the Sports Illustrated swim suit issue still gave me a thrill. Now i am on dialysis for three years. I haven't had any sex in six years. I asked for some Viagra but was told it would hurt my heart. It seems blood pressure meds. and dialysis hurt the sex drive. Now i look at a sports illustrated swim suit issue and think "They might as well be farm animals in swim suits." The only "thrill i feel is in my fistula!"
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« Reply #86 on: May 12, 2007, 12:29:28 PM »
Awww Keefer,  why dont you come on over to Renal Romance?  You never know where or when your gonna meet someone but what i have heard is there is this thing called the internet where people could become friends at a website (perhaps Renal Romance) ;)  and who knows where that could lead :)  We are still small but in time we are hoping more and more people will join and, well, ya just never know ;) ;)   Even if you dont meet someone there, i am sure you will enjoy reading and posting in those threads as well (some are a little risque) ;) ;)    Hope to see ya there...  :2thumbsup;
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« Reply #87 on: May 12, 2007, 09:16:18 PM »
I have been on prednisone for 9 years and have had no problem with my sex drive.  My fiance is always complaining that I have too much of a sex drive.  I tell him he should count himself lucky.  I did have problems with self esteem because of all the changes my body has gone through, but that all goes away when the lights go off.  ;)
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« Reply #88 on: May 12, 2007, 09:40:25 PM »
Talk about a low body image over here.   Thank God the hubby loves me as I am. I hate the way I look right now and I have to do something about it.
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« Reply #89 on: May 12, 2007, 10:36:59 PM »
Awww Ladies, come on, get over it and Work it, come on, shake that money maker ;)  (sorry, tequila talking) :P  But i hope ya know what i'm talkin 'bout  ::)
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« Reply #90 on: May 13, 2007, 08:23:30 AM »
Quote from: ILOVEFLUID on May 12, 2007, 09:16:18 PM
I have been on prednisone for 9 years and have had no problem with my sex drive.  My fiance is always complaining that I have too much of a sex drive.  I tell him he should count himself lucky.  I did have problems with self esteem because of all the changes my body has gone through, but that all goes away when the lights go off.  ;)

Lucky you! :)

I was put on prednisone when I was 12, before I developed a sex drive, so the prednisone, while it didn't "ruin" it, it produes a hormone in your body that your body is supposed to let out to say "hey, your horny.." but b/c the prednisone makes it, your body thinks it already let it off, when it actually didn't so,  don't get the signal saying "hey, your horny!" lol.... I have to have a hormone Dr do blood tests and give me a hormone, however I don't even have a partner at the moment, so thats last on my list of things to do.  :lol;

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« Reply #91 on: May 13, 2007, 08:34:46 AM »
Who even thinks about sex while on dialysis?????? no way thats happening!!  :lol;
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« Reply #92 on: May 13, 2007, 09:50:32 AM »
I have already though of having sex on dialysis when I start it at home.  Don't know if my fiance will be game for it though.  The only thing that scares me is all the tubing.  I think having sex while hooked up to the machine is the ultimate way of saying "Screw you...you think you can keep me from doing what i want, when I want.  Dialysis is not gonna keep me down"
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« Reply #93 on: May 13, 2007, 10:01:30 AM »
I've never done it while hooked up, that would be way too uncomfortable, but I have done it just after and just before!
Just gotta pick your times, when you are both ready and physically comfortable with it.
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« Reply #94 on: May 13, 2007, 01:12:12 PM »
I think it would put the nurses and techs into shock at the center. Not to mention what the patients  next to me might think! Plus those chairs are not made for two to be in at once.  Hmmm... ;D >:D it just would be too much!
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« Reply #95 on: May 13, 2007, 01:31:03 PM »
Kit. You don't do it side by side. You do it one on top of the other. With that, the chairs
would be just wide enough to do it. They DO have curtains too. Of course there may be
some loud noises, but considering what's been reported by other members, I'd say it
wouldn't be any worse that that. Depends upon how enthusiastic you get, I suppose....
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« Reply #96 on: May 13, 2007, 01:40:34 PM »
Trying real hard not to think about it!
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« Reply #97 on: May 13, 2007, 01:41:31 PM »
LOL!!! The point about sex is to NOT think about it...but to DO it!!!!!
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« Reply #98 on: May 13, 2007, 02:52:29 PM »
Quote from: MyssAnne on May 13, 2007, 01:41:31 PM
LOL!!! The point about sex is to NOT think about it...but to DO it!!!!!


Ladies, can we give this quote a big AMEN? ;)  AAAAAMEN!!! :)  :clap;
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« Reply #99 on: May 13, 2007, 02:56:59 PM »
AMEN sistah... ;D
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