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« on: April 27, 2013, 05:52:08 PM »
My daughters Dad died today. I feel bad for her and I have some hurt feelings about it. I started taking my xanax morning and night, I am about ready to take it in the afternoon. I am so stressed and so down that I constantly feel sick, pain all over, headaches, tiredness, pains in chest. I try to relax but it is so hard. If I wasn't so sick I would run around outside until I broke down and cried or collapse. My daughter is watching me like a hawk, everytime I look funny or complain about not being well or I need to sleep, she is ready to pack my hospital bag. I just hope that GOD lets everything go smoothly and I can continue on with my life in some positive way. I am just blowing of steam again, its the only place I seem to be able to do that. I have no one to talk to to comfort me. My daughter but she is having her own problems. I wish there was a talk line for people, but then I would be on it all day long. Dialysis is still making me sick, I kept running to the bathroom all day. I have no idea why I get so sick from dialysis, it use to be that I would get sick right after but now it waits until the next day. I am going to try to go to bed early tonight and try to get some extra rest. I hope everyone has a good night.

Dragonfly
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Dragonflies and Butterflies and Dad and Mom

SLE - 11/17/09
Renal Failure - 11/17/09
Raynard's Syndrome - 11/17/09
Pulmonary Hypertension - 03/08
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« Reply #1 on: April 27, 2013, 06:35:51 PM »
Yes, the bridge between dispare and hope is a good night's rest.  Let us know what a new day brings.

      :pray;

Hang in there.     
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« Reply #2 on: April 27, 2013, 07:49:09 PM »
Im sorry Dragonfly... I hope you sleep well and it brings some peace..   :grouphug;  :pray;
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im a california wife and cargiver to my hubby
He started dialysis April 09
We thank God for every day we are blessed to have together.
november 2010, patiently (ha!) waiting our turn for NxStage training
January 14,2011 home with NxStage
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« Reply #3 on: April 29, 2013, 07:26:00 PM »
Take it slow and let only the present on your mind.  Can't change the past, or fortell the future. For now, take care of yourself.
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« Reply #4 on: April 29, 2013, 08:36:02 PM »
Sorry for your families loss, everything seems to crumble at the same time and you never get a chance to recover.  Keep on fighting, that is all we can do.
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Dr. Larry (Chiropractor)

My life has been drastically changed and I want to get back to the living my life.

I ♥ have ♥ the ♥ most ♥ beautiful ♥ DAUGHTER ♥ in the ♥ world☆•*¨*•.¸¸❤❤¸.•*¨

Back Surgery
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Diabetic retinopathy (Countless shots to both eyes & Laser Treatments)
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« Reply #5 on: April 30, 2013, 03:29:54 PM »
If you'd like to chat, please message me on here with your number.  My son lost his father last year.  I can relate.
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Inherited PKD from my Mother who died at age 52
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2012 Lost Transplant and had Pneumonia
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« Reply #6 on: May 07, 2013, 08:42:47 PM »
My daughter lost her Dad too!  It was a very sad situation for her.  Sorry for her loss, Dragonfly.  Sorry you are dealing with all of this too.  I can only imagine the pain you must feel. 

Be good to yourself.  Dont be so hard.  Praying is all we can do.

God Bless,
lmunchkin :kickstart;
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6/2009 Peritonitis , PD Cath removed
7/2009 Hemo Dialysis In-Center
2/2010 BKA rt leg & lt foot (all toes) amputated
6/2010 to present.  NxStage at home
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« Reply #7 on: May 12, 2013, 05:02:30 PM »
Just want to send out a big thank you to everyone. I haven't been on because my lupus is flaring so I haven't been feeling so good.
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SLE - 11/17/09
Renal Failure - 11/17/09
Raynard's Syndrome - 11/17/09
Pulmonary Hypertension - 03/08
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