here a quick further update, and i have a question for you all:
i am now driving the hubster to the clinic until he gets the TX. he is weak and sick and don't want to chance anything. i also had to fill in the nurses there on the last 2 days of him getting chest port replaced, what doc said, etc.
while there, she and i went back in one of the rooms and had a friendly but frank discussion. not just about my hubby but because i am now the assigned advocate for our support group.
all went well and got some things rolling. things we've all been asking for months now. but you know the squeaky wheel.
well, the last topic we discussed was the EMS, prison guards and medical transport people coming and going in the clinic, without taking any precautions. no gloves, mask, wash hands, nothing.
DH says after they unload a patient off the stretcher, they don't wipe it down, just throw a new sheet on it.
theres more but thats the jist.
i explained to her that my DH and i worked EMS for years, we transported dialysis patients, but also worked 911 calls in hemo units. never were we allowed to enter without gloves, mask, gown, head and shoe coverings.
now i realize advancements have been made, but we are only talking less than 2 years since we did this work.
nurses defense of this, get this, was, "these are medical people hired to do a job for us, they don't need to do any of this, because they are doing medical transport"..
uh..yeah..in and out of nursing homes, hospitals, ER's, private homes. all day.
i was confounded. i asked her, so because they have a title on their shirt, they are somehow immune to picking up germs and spreading them?
she says, "well they aren't like a taxi driver with a dirty job"..
she asked me what was the minimum i would like to see, and i said gloves and a mask. this made her very upset and angry and yelling. again..me..
i gave up. tried to end on positive note. doc will be in next week, says i can talk to him about it.
he is a sweet kind man and i am betting he doesn't know this stuff is going on.
during this, one of the familys called me to say his wife was in hospital, due to a stroke. apparently, her port wasn't working and no dialysis for 5 days. when they got it working, they tried to take too much all in one sitting. she had a stroke.
she was air lifted to big hosp in ann arbor. she has had all mri, ct scans, everything done to find out why this happened. docs there say they see this alot, clinic takes too much off and patient has a stroke.
this friend of mine also said the hospital hemo unit there takes no precautions. anyone can come and go and he said no one was even wearing gloves.
when DH was in hospital hemo unit, i had to put on gown and wash hands, and if i had a cold or cough wear a mask, and i couldn't be in the unit during hook up or take down.
ok, forgive me, i am exhausted and typing the dark. anyone care to chime in here???