I am really sad and depressed today!

[KICKSTART]

Hey Des , hows it going ? Did you find out if you can complain to anyone ? Dont you just love those people that dont think youre ill ! Yet let them have a cold and they are in bed for 3 days , poor souls. Dont do your hair and dont put any makeup on  , it works for me ! I  look like death warmed up without it !   

[Des]

heheheh

I tried too hard to look healthy..... no more! When I feel sick I am going to look sick and not hide it anymore. It was my own fault I suppose. OR I am going to get me some crutches.. (just joking, not taking a jab at anyone on crutches)

KS... my boss seems a bit chicken to put any of it in writing... he wants to talk... hehehehhe

 

[willowtreewren]

my boss seems a bit chicken to put any of it in writing

He he. I'm having trouble understanding exactly what you mean! Perhaps you could write it down so I could read over in order to understand better. 

[KICKSTART]

Ah, get him to put anything in writing , then if you can make a complaint you have proof , without it , its just his word against yours. I'd get the crutches or maybe a walking stick and id be very clumsy with it , leave it sticking out or wave it about , you are sure to catch one of your co workers sooner or later !

[Des]

you both are so funny!

wtw   do you want him to think that I am an idiot to? Not just sick.... but I am going to try that. "Please.. I really don't understand, please write it down for me." 

ks  duck people here comes the lady with the cane. !!!!!
(I just pictured it... so funny)

[murf]

Don't you find that people you work with and even those you know quite well, have a great deal of sympathy but so little empathy? I hate the "o you poor boy" comment when they haven't got a clue what happens to your body during and after dialysis. Only a person who has been on dialysis really knows and that's why this site is a god-send.

[Falkenbach]

You keep standing up for yourself Des. How dare they?!  I could go on, but it's best I don't.

 

[KICKSTART]

Des . no no no , i didnt mean you dont understand him . Its just proof that he is sending you backwards as opposed to a promo and if you have nothing in writing , you have no proof (he could say you didnt feel up to the job you are doing right now , because of health issues) If you have something in writing giving his reasons for doing this to you , then its so much easier to prove.    Got the stick yet ?     

[dwcrawford]

Des, of course I know nothing of S Africa of the UK where KS is, but if you were in the US Kickstarts advice would be right on the money.   I use to be on the other end of this situation and when people wanted things documented managment watched their Ps and Qs afterward.  Here they could not refuse to give you documentation.  I do realize that the legal ramifications could be different where you are but sure is worth going for.