Tsk, tsk, Epoman, you were not paying attention!!! I did say in the original post that nocturnal was -alternate- nights... or 4 nights a week for people who wantto do it on the same days each week, because of work etc. So you would only be 'stuck' the same numberof times per week, you'd get better & less exhausting dialysis and your daytime would be free.Sure you'd either have to have sex on alternate nights....or slip quietly away, where others would perhapsbe having a cigarette ...or maybe you could have sex in the daytime. **You are supplied with a foam thing to go around the fistula and 2 moisture detection pads - one for yourarm & one for under the dialyser, so any leaks & you're buzzed awake. THey tell me some of the patientsare quite animated when they sleep & there've been very few probs.**btw you are luckier than me, as I got so low before getting treatment, my libido is almost non-existent.Altho they seem to think it will come back..