I will definitely get on him about exercising his arm.
To update, the dialysis center sucked out some clot stuff (TMI?) and then sent him to the hospital. At the hospital they used the balloon thing (sorry, not up on the terminology) to widen his vein. The tech/nurse whoever talked to me when I picked him up said it wasn't blocked completely but they did need to widen it, and said that sometimes it needs to be widened a few times until it finally stays...wide, I guess. I asked if this would be affected by the dialysis center not sticking him properly, and he said his personal opinion was probably, but that he couldn't say 100%. He said we need to find the best sticker and bribe them by bringing coffee or something and get them to do it. I understand why he said that, but it really makes me mad to think that we might actually have to bribe someone so Joe gets the treatment he needs and deserves. They also put a stent in because he said (I think this is it) there was a vein leading away from the fistula and that could affect it. Does that sound correct? Joe's arm was sore the rest of that day and the next but is getting better. We talked (Joe and I) about not letting that one lady at the center not stick him any more, but today guess who stuck him? Joe said "she only stuck me twice, then they got someone else who stuck me once." I don't think he gets it that any unnecessary stick is too many. I'm going to talk to him again about it tonight. We may have to call up to the center when he's not there, because he goes early in the morning, so I think he's tired and maybe a little intimidated to say anything about it, or question the lady who does it. I'm not sure who I should talk to, but I guess there's got to be a nurse supervisor or something.
Rerun, I remember reading about your vein splitting, and that's part of the reason I was freaking out a bit about this. I'm glad yours is doing OK now. I didn't know that pred weakens your veins! Joe's pretty much screwed. Diabetes f'ed up his veins, the dialysis workers/process is f'ing up his veins, now if/when he gets a transplant, the pred is going to mess with his veins. He just can't win.
Geoff, I hope they're able to de-clot it for you. Sorry about the problems you've been having. It is nice to talk to you again!