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boswife
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us and fam easter 2013
« on: October 15, 2013, 07:23:20 PM »
That I love you all  :)  I pop in and check it out here occasionally,  but just still dont have the heart to post or read much... I miss my Bo so much that if it wernt for the Grace of God, ohhhhhh boy, i dont know how i'd be maken it.  I have a beautiful life with my family, and very happy times, mostly happy, but still the tears still seem to come all to easy.  Was a rough day today, so not a good one to post about, but did feel that i wanted to thank you all for your lovely messages in my time of great need.  So, thank you all, you have ment the world to me.  Life is good, God is good :) but it doesnt take the miss away :(
Wishen you all well, and blessings to you all  :flower;
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im a california wife and cargiver to my hubby
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We thank God for every day we are blessed to have together.
november 2010, patiently (ha!) waiting our turn for NxStage training
January 14,2011 home with NxStage
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« Reply #1 on: October 15, 2013, 07:31:58 PM »
Oh, I have been thinking about you so much lately!  I've been thinking about both you and lmunchkin; you both have been such a strong presence here on IHD, and I miss you both.

I am so glad to see your post, and I love you so much.  I am sure that each day is a bit of a struggle; that's the price of having had true love.  It hurts that much more when your love has left the earth.  But Bo is waiting for you, and when you next see him, he will be happy and healthy and will be glad to see you.

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« Reply #2 on: October 15, 2013, 07:37:08 PM »
Glad to see you post. I'm sure it's tough but know we are thinking about you and praying for all that is necessary for you to persevere.
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« Reply #3 on: October 16, 2013, 09:44:45 AM »
Well, yet again your PM box is full, so I'll just say it here...

God is sending you His comfort.  Keep your heart open to receive all of His succor.  Bo would want nothing less for you, his beloved wife.
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"Eggs are so inadequate, don't you think?  I mean, they ought to be able to become anything, but instead you always get a chicken.  Or a duck.  Or whatever they're programmed to be.  You never get anything interesting, like regret, or the middle of last week."
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« Reply #4 on: October 16, 2013, 10:13:17 AM »
boswife, It is lovely to see you posting again. You and Bo are still in my thoughts. You must miss him so much. I wont say it will get any easier but you are so stronge, one day at a time is good. Please keep popping in, I miss your posts.
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« Reply #5 on: October 16, 2013, 12:55:12 PM »
Oh darling, Boswife, here with a kind word for us in your time of mourning. Sweetheart, you knock me out with your bright, compassionate, loving spirit, and I know Bo played a huge part in making you the person we've come to know and love so deeply. I wish more than anything that I could take your pain away. Please keep visiting when you are up to it. I also miss your presence here.
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« Reply #6 on: October 16, 2013, 04:00:25 PM »
So glad to see you here!  Please keep visiting. I miss your posts and words of encouragement.  Praying you find comfort and peace as you learn how to live without your beloved Bo.  Thank you for all you have done to help us on IHD.  Wish I could do more to help you in return.   :grouphug;
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PKD diagnosis at 17
Cancer May 2011, surgery and no further treatment but placed on 2 year wait for transplant
October 2011 first fistula in left wrist
April 2012 second fistula in upper arm, disconnect of wrist
January 2013, stage 5 ESRD
March 2013 training with NxStage home hemo
April 2013 at home with NxStage
April 2013 fistula revision to reduce flow
May 2013 advised to have double nephrectomy, liver cyst ablation and hernia repair. Awaiting insurance approval to begin transplant testing. Surgery in June.
June 2013 bilateral nephrectomy.
August 2013 finishing testing for transplant, 4 potential donors being tissue typed.
January 2014 husband approved to donate kidney for me
March 4th 2014 received transplant from awesome hubby. Named the new bean FK (fat kidney) lol!  So far we are doing great!
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« Reply #7 on: October 16, 2013, 11:43:26 PM »
Hey, boswife! Great to hear from you. You know we're always here for you.
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« Reply #8 on: October 17, 2013, 03:03:51 AM »
I've spent some time away from the forum for a bit and I can't express how sad I am for you. Wish I had words of wisdom or some way to help you feel better. Thank you for all your kind words and help. We love you too.
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Geoff
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« Reply #9 on: October 17, 2013, 05:44:06 PM »
I'll never forget your story. Your husband's memory carries on with me and probably a lot of people here. You have helped me appreciate my wife even more. Stay strong.
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« Reply #10 on: October 18, 2013, 03:32:55 AM »
 :cuddle;  oh, boswife, it is so good to see a post from you! I miss your  insightful and loving advice,your compassion and humor, and your common sense! I  know your heart is shattered and I wish there was some way I could ease your sorrow. I wish I could write a post that could lift and sustain you through this terrible time, but as usual, words fail me just when I need them most! Just know you are in our hearts.   :cuddle;
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« Reply #12 on: October 18, 2013, 09:04:29 AM »
*huggles* for you, my lovely.
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« Reply #13 on: October 18, 2013, 10:01:36 AM »
Thinking of you....

Those tears will blind side you for a long time.  :cuddle;

Only time will lessen the hurt, but never take it away.

 :grouphug;

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