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« on: September 26, 2012, 10:11:15 PM »

It has been a little while since i have been on and my life has been nothing but chaos and stress. I go back to my neph on Tuesday and to be honest with the luck i have been having i am almost afraid to go. My husband went to jail over some trumped up charges and it cost us $1037.00 to get him out. My girls were all torn up abut it, my oldest has acid reflux and IBS and it sent both of those issues into over drive not to mention it took all out bill money to get him out, and that put us behind. A wanna be cop let some one take my husbands dump traior with no proof it was theirs just because they said it was and wouldnt even give him time to prove where we bought it. So that was another 300 bucks we were out not to mention no way of hauling away the tear off trash from job sights now. And to top it all off my husband was trying to get a neighbor to leave our land lords propetty Tuesday and he punched my daughter in the face and ran my husband over with his tractor.Then threatened all our lives. Luckly after being at the er till one in the morning they found that is only caused what they called a crush injury to his leg and pelvis area so now he can't work for a while and that puts us even more behind. The guy got out on a 1100 bond and we found out today that 2 wks ago he ran over and killed an man in Knoxville. This guy lives 2 houses dpwn from us. I am afraid to even go past his house. If stress really effects your kidneys i am in some serious trouble come Tuseday. The only good news i have gotten in the last 2 months is i finely have my hearing date for my disability. Oct. 16th is the day i hope my luck has improved before then.  :rant; :banghead; :Kit n Stik;
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« Reply #1 on: September 27, 2012, 07:40:05 AM »

If the old saying is "It never rains, it pours."  it sounds like you are having a hurricane!

 :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
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« Reply #2 on: September 27, 2012, 10:32:22 AM »

Yea maybe a tsunami with my luck
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« Reply #3 on: September 27, 2012, 10:35:31 AM »

Peaches94, stay strong.  Sometimes we are put through a test to see how well we handle things.  Always remember, when the storm is over, the sun will shine. Your blessings are coming!!!  8)
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Dailysis patient for since 1999 and still kicking it strong.  I was called for a transplant but could not get it due to damage veins from extremely high blood pressure.  Have it under control now, on NxStage System but will receive dailysis for the rest of my life.  Does life sucks because of this.  ABOLUTELY NOT!  Life is what you make it good, bad, sick, or healthy.  Praise God I'm still functioning as a normal person just have to take extra steps.
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« Reply #4 on: September 27, 2012, 04:51:18 PM »

holly crap....  I hope good things heading your way, seems youve had your fill of the 'other'...  Sending  :pray; :pray; for disability to come through... should be sure thing, but doesnt take the worry out of it..  Do what ya can to get some relieve,,, hang in there, and hoping those "blessings" are on their way..
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« Reply #5 on: September 27, 2012, 05:22:24 PM »

Thanks you guys. I know I can't give up but sometimes I really feel like doin it any way. It helps to know that there are still people who care in the world. As many blessings as I receive I pray you all get double.  :grouphug;
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« Reply #6 on: September 27, 2012, 06:55:39 PM »

Peaches94, stay strong.  Sometimes we are put through a test to see how well we handle things.  Always remember, when the storm is over, the sun will shine. Your blessings are coming!!!  8)
I couldn't have said it better myself. Very well said and from someone who has been through alot herself!

There are days, not always, that my husband is so depressed.  When and if I see him like that, I perk him up and I do a pretty good job of it too!  But there are times that I myself, am so tired, I just can't mustard the energy.  God makes it rain on the Just & the unjust. We were never promised an easy life on earth.  Just do the best you can Peaches. 

God Bless,
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