Chris , The whole saga was a battle between the renal team and the surgeons . The renal team wanted the surgery done as soon as the hernia was diagnosed but the surgeon could not justify doing it as an emergency as it was not strangulating . Laurie had to wait about a month for the surgery ( we do not have private health insurance ) and the surgeon said it was up to the renal team to come up with a solution for the dialysis . It was the neph's decision to rest him off dialysis altogether