I Hate Dialysis Message Board

Introduction => Introduce Yourself => Topic started by: Phillip_20 on March 23, 2008, 05:51:41 PM

Title: I'm new here
Post by: Phillip_20 on March 23, 2008, 05:51:41 PM
Hello everyone! My name is Phillip (as you could probably tell by my user name), and my girlfriend used to be on dialysis and has ESRD b/c of Lupus... so I figured I'd sign up here as she told me about the site (she is a member), so I could learn even more about everything than she has already told me, and to learn how to support her should she have to go on dialysis again in the future. I also want to understand everything that she went through, so when she talks to me about it, I might be able to know how to respond, and be empathic/sympathetic
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Sluff on March 23, 2008, 06:09:03 PM
Welcome Phillip to ihatedialysis.com,

Good to see your interest in learning about ESRD and the possibilities of dialysis, to help your girlfriend, what a lucky girl she is to have you. Take your time reading and feel free to post often.

Sluff/Admin
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Phillip_20 on March 23, 2008, 06:14:22 PM
Thanks! I'm glad to be here
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: kitkatz on March 23, 2008, 06:18:17 PM
Welcome to the boards.  I hope you find a lot of what you are looking for as you read through the posts.  There is a lot of information here.



kitkatz,moderator
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: twirl on March 23, 2008, 06:25:32 PM
and the best boyfriend award goes to Phillip20 :welcomesign;

you are the best
dialysis is hard and the needles hurt
just listen to her
that really helps
can you help her pass the time while she is in the chair?  :cuddle;
bring her ice from Sonic, it is the best
always be there with your kind heart :bandance;







EDITED:Fixed smiley tag error-kitkatz,moderator
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: kidney4traci on March 23, 2008, 07:25:18 PM
That is awesome to see that you have devoted your self so much to her as to want to understand more of what she went through.  You have my vote as BBF! :welcomesign;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: boxman55 on March 23, 2008, 07:34:18 PM
Phillip 20 thanks for joining please check all the forums out along with the care giver forum for some very informative stuff. Welcome to IHD


Boxman/Moderator
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Mimi on March 23, 2008, 07:39:39 PM
Welcome BBF!!!!!!! This is an excellent place to learn about it all.

Mimi
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: rose1999 on March 24, 2008, 12:34:27 AM
Hi Phillip and  :welcomesign; from the  :ukflag;
Happy Easter  :bunny:
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: willieandwinnie on March 24, 2008, 04:43:34 AM
:welcomesign; Phillip, what a great thing to do for your girlfriend. Hope to hear more from both of you.
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: bolta72 on March 24, 2008, 04:46:34 AM
Welcome Phillip, you sound like one great guy to help her out like this. :thumbup;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Psim on March 24, 2008, 12:38:48 PM
Welcome Phillip! You rock for looking to learn more to support your gal.
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Slywalker on March 24, 2008, 05:19:25 PM
 :welcomesign; aboard !!!  Nice to see you. 

Sandyb

 :bunny:
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: annabanana on March 25, 2008, 05:06:56 AM
 :welcomesign; BBF! I'm a caregiver, too. This site is perfect for you.
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Phillip_20 on March 25, 2008, 10:23:29 AM
Thanks all! Oh, I realized I messed up in my first post... I said she is on dialysis, but I meant to say "used to be on dialysis and has ESRD"...  :oops;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: MyssAnne on March 25, 2008, 10:31:32 AM
Welcome aboard, Phililp!!!  You'll learn lots here, and hopefully you'll bring your girlfriend on board too, the more the merrier!!!

 :welcomesign; :welcomesign;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Phillip_20 on March 25, 2008, 10:34:16 AM
Welcome aboard, Phililp!!!  You'll learn lots here, and hopefully you'll bring your girlfriend on board too, the more the merrier!!!

 :welcomesign; :welcomesign;

She already is on here.
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: lola on March 25, 2008, 12:10:36 PM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: paris on March 25, 2008, 12:32:03 PM
 :welcomesign;  Glad you found us.  This is a great place for support and information for both of you.  Looking forward to hearing more from you. :2thumbsup;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Ang on March 25, 2008, 03:05:03 PM
 :welcomesign;  phillip  20

 :secret;  who's  the  lucky  girl
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Ohio Buckeye on March 25, 2008, 04:47:12 PM
 :welcomesign;  Phillip to the IHD Family!
The world needs more good men like you.
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: angela515 on March 25, 2008, 07:17:03 PM
 :welcomesign;

I am his g/f. I asked him to join this site since you all are family to me and I want him to understand why I am the way I am with alot of things and when I do go back on dialysis it would be nice for him to be able to understand it. I have explained alot, but there is always more to learn.

 :grouphug;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Phillip_20 on March 25, 2008, 07:28:32 PM
:welcomesign;

I am his g/f. I asked him to join this site since you all are family to me and I want him to understand why I am the way I am with alot of things and when I do go back on dialysis it would be nice for him to be able to understand it. I have explained alot, but there is always more to learn.

 :grouphug;

Yes, there is always more to learn, and I am always willing to learn. I look forward to being an active member of this site, as I love the site and I want to learn. Thanks for the welcomes!
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: okarol on March 25, 2008, 11:30:21 PM
:welcomesign;

I am his g/f. I asked him to join this site since you all are family to me and I want him to understand why I am the way I am with alot of things and when I do go back on dialysis it would be nice for him to be able to understand it. I have explained alot, but there is always more to learn.

 :grouphug;

That's sweet angela, sounds like he's a keeper!
 :waving; Welcome to the family Phillip!
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: st789 on March 25, 2008, 11:42:06 PM
 :clap;

Learn and be as much as supports as you can.
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Bajanne on March 31, 2008, 02:49:23 PM
Welcome to our community, Phillip!  We are so glad you decided to join us, and we are particularly gratified that it is through your love and concern for one of our family members that you are here.  There is lots to read, but I hope you post a lot as well.  Here is a group hug.  :grouphug;


Bajanne, Moderator
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: kellyt on April 01, 2008, 12:42:13 PM
 :waving;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Romona on April 01, 2008, 08:12:23 PM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: mikey07840 on April 01, 2008, 08:14:46 PM
Welcome!   :bandance;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Ken Shelmerdine on April 02, 2008, 06:59:07 AM
 :welcomesign; Phillip. Your girlfriend although unlucky enough to have kidney failure is nevertherless very lucky to have you as her boyfriend. Look forward to your posts. :thumbup;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Sluff on April 06, 2008, 05:22:05 AM
So when is the wedding going to take place??  Chicago or vegas meet?    :sluff;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: Phillip_20 on April 06, 2008, 03:54:58 PM
So when is the wedding going to take place??  Chicago or vegas meet?    :sluff;

It's a little too early for that  :lol;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: paris on April 06, 2008, 04:24:31 PM
Glad you joined us Phillip. This is a great site.  Angela is a sweetie and we all love her here. :grouphug;     :welcomesign;
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: belita88 on February 20, 2009, 10:08:21 PM
my brother was on dialysis for a few years before he passed away and he hated it.
the nurses never listened to him when he told them that the needles didnt feel right, and they were doing it wrong whenever he said it hurt.
dialysis is a boring time and it drags for the person.
try and keep them entertained, magazines, transportable games and wotever she enjoys.
and stay with her. she will appreciate it.
ur a good bf =]
Title: Re: I'm new here
Post by: jessup on February 21, 2009, 01:32:48 PM
G'day and  :welcomesign;