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Dialysis Discussion => Dialysis: General Discussion => Topic started by: Dragonfly on April 27, 2013, 05:52:08 PM

Title: Well it happened
Post by: Dragonfly on April 27, 2013, 05:52:08 PM
My daughters Dad died today. I feel bad for her and I have some hurt feelings about it. I started taking my xanax morning and night, I am about ready to take it in the afternoon. I am so stressed and so down that I constantly feel sick, pain all over, headaches, tiredness, pains in chest. I try to relax but it is so hard. If I wasn't so sick I would run around outside until I broke down and cried or collapse. My daughter is watching me like a hawk, everytime I look funny or complain about not being well or I need to sleep, she is ready to pack my hospital bag. I just hope that GOD lets everything go smoothly and I can continue on with my life in some positive way. I am just blowing of steam again, its the only place I seem to be able to do that. I have no one to talk to to comfort me. My daughter but she is having her own problems. I wish there was a talk line for people, but then I would be on it all day long. Dialysis is still making me sick, I kept running to the bathroom all day. I have no idea why I get so sick from dialysis, it use to be that I would get sick right after but now it waits until the next day. I am going to try to go to bed early tonight and try to get some extra rest. I hope everyone has a good night.

Dragonfly
Title: Re: Well it happened
Post by: Rerun on April 27, 2013, 06:35:51 PM
Yes, the bridge between dispare and hope is a good night's rest.  Let us know what a new day brings.

      :pray;

Hang in there.     
Title: Re: Well it happened
Post by: boswife on April 27, 2013, 07:49:09 PM
Im sorry Dragonfly... I hope you sleep well and it brings some peace..   :grouphug;  :pray;
Title: Re: Well it happened
Post by: donnal on April 29, 2013, 07:26:00 PM
Take it slow and let only the present on your mind.  Can't change the past, or fortell the future. For now, take care of yourself.
Title: Re: Well it happened
Post by: chiromac on April 29, 2013, 08:36:02 PM
Sorry for your families loss, everything seems to crumble at the same time and you never get a chance to recover.  Keep on fighting, that is all we can do.
Title: Re: Well it happened
Post by: kit78 on April 30, 2013, 03:29:54 PM
If you'd like to chat, please message me on here with your number.  My son lost his father last year.  I can relate.
Title: Re: Well it happened
Post by: lmunchkin on May 07, 2013, 08:42:47 PM
My daughter lost her Dad too!  It was a very sad situation for her.  Sorry for her loss, Dragonfly.  Sorry you are dealing with all of this too.  I can only imagine the pain you must feel. 

Be good to yourself.  Dont be so hard.  Praying is all we can do.

God Bless,
lmunchkin :kickstart;
Title: Re: Well it happened
Post by: Dragonfly on May 12, 2013, 05:02:30 PM
Just want to send out a big thank you to everyone. I haven't been on because my lupus is flaring so I haven't been feeling so good.