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Title: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: goofynina on February 06, 2007, 02:19:29 PM
Epoman,
    I am sorry for the "advice" that i gave you that you took the wrong way.  Thank you for allowing me to be a part of this awesome community that you have here.   Good luck to you in all that you do.   :thumbup;



Dear IHD Family,
   I just wanted to say my final goodbye.  Thank you so much for all the laughs, i will truly miss you all.  I wish i could tell each one of you individually what you mean to me but it is hard just writing this (hopefully you all know by now).  Even though i will no longer be here, you will all still remain in my prayers.  May God Bless you all and may all your prayers be answered.  I Love You all...  :grouphug;


Goofynina/Susie


UPDATE:

Dear IHD Family,
   Just when you thought it was safe to go back in the water,  here comes  Goofynina.. And you thought you could get rid of me that easy,,, PUHLEASE :P I DONT THINK SO :P 
   It was all a misunderstanding.  Thank God Epoman is so patient and willing to explain things a little more so i can understand them and see the BIG picture.
  Thank you all for the kind words, its so nice to know that i am lovededed cuz Lord only knows how much i Love all of you...  :grouphug;
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Rerun on February 06, 2007, 02:59:50 PM
Nanaannooo, You don't get out that easy.   >:D

Whatever the problem you need to make amends.  That is what family does.     :banghead;

                                :wine;
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: kitkatz on February 06, 2007, 03:12:26 PM
Fix it DAMMIT!  Make it right you two!  Comeon Goofynina youknow how the boss gets.  Take a few minutes and a deep breath.  Now come on stay with us.  I need my friend!
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Joe Paul on February 06, 2007, 03:17:52 PM
I'm speechless, and hoping things can be sorted out.
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: angieskidney on February 06, 2007, 03:20:27 PM
What? Noooooo!! Kitkatz is right! You know how he gets! Talk it out! No matter how long it takes talking it out always results in only good things! Look how many disagreements Epoman and I have had? But if you talk it out then it will work out! Sometimes people take things wrong! You can't just leave it wrong!! You know he thinks of you as a sister and really enjoyed meeting you!

IHD is family and you have said before that in a family you might fight and even not talk to each other for a bit but you are all STILL FAMILY!

Please don't leave GoofyNina! you have taught me things and given me a kick in the ass (you know what I am referring to) so please don't leave!!

 :cuddle;
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Ohio Buckeye on February 06, 2007, 03:38:13 PM
Don't leave Goofynina.
Whatever the problem is you can talk it out.
You are friends like sister and brother.
We need you on this site.
We need your encouraging words and your sense of humor.
We need you to tell us to keep on keepin on.
..........................and you need us!
Please don't leave.

Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Sluff on February 06, 2007, 05:37:10 PM
Susie if you see this.

You don't do this to friends. Please call me or Epoman and sort this shit out. It can be fixed. Sorry if you got hurt feelings, sometimes we all take our friends for granted, and I'm sure things can be taken out of text. I don't know what happened, but I know you well enough to know you can't stay away from your friends for long so lets work out whatever it is that needs to be done.
 

I miss my friend... :'( :'(
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: goofynina on February 06, 2007, 08:09:41 PM
Dear IHD Family,
   Just when you thought it was safe to go back in the water,  here comes  Goofynina.. And you thought you could get rid of me that easy,,, PUHLEASE :P
I DONT THINK SO :P 
   It was all a misunderstanding.  Thank God Epoman is so patient and willing to explain things a little more so i can understand them and see the BIG picture.
  Thank you all for the kind words, its so nice to know that i am lovededed cuz Lord only knows how much i Love all of you...  :grouphug;
   
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Rerun on February 06, 2007, 08:17:40 PM
AND We all Yell.......Yeaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

So glad you changed your mind.   :grouphug;

                     :thx;

Thank you Epoman !
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Sluff on February 06, 2007, 08:20:55 PM
Don't ever do that again... :banghead;   Unless you want to see a grown man cry. It's great you guys got things worked out  :2thumbsup;
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Epoman on February 06, 2007, 08:47:13 PM
Dear IHD Family,
   Just when you thought it was safe to go back in the water,  here comes  Goofynina.. And you thought you could get rid of me that easy,,, PUHLEASE :P
I DONT THINK SO :P 
   It was all a misunderstanding.  Thank God Epoman is so patient and willing to explain things a little more so i can understand them and see the BIG picture.
  Thank you all for the kind words, its so nice to know that i am lovededed cuz Lord only knows how much i Love all of you...  :grouphug;
   

Yes, it was just a big misunderstanding. Susie and I both got our feelings hurt and Susie thought I was mad at her when I wasn't and she thought it would be better to just leave. But I explained to her how I was not upset at her at all and that I was just being sarcastic to her as we sometimes are to each other. She over reacted and we both apologized to each other. Susie is very important to me as a friend and as an associate. Even the best of friends have disagreements or arguments, however this was simply a misunderstanding.

Also for those of you that are wondering, our misunderstanding had ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with IHD at all. It was a totally personal issue on something not even related to ihatedialysis.com or the Internet. And Susie and I will never let our personal issues spill over into IHD again. I explained to Susie that we need to keep our personal issues separate from our job of running IHD. I explained how IHD is bigger than both of us and that to many people depend on this site for support for us to let our personal issues affect the site.

Oh and Susie, I will be having to dock your pay for the time you took off. Oh and you're going to have to fill out a new application if you want your medical benefits and 401k reinstated.  ;D >:D ;)

- Epoman
Owner/Admin
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: kitkatz on February 06, 2007, 10:27:43 PM
I say HURRAY! And if you two do that again I am going to come find you both and bust some chops!!!  Do you hear me?!  I know where you live Goofynina and it may be a long drive, but I will come find you!  Drag you back to us kicking and screaming all the way!
Epoman, I can find Tito's Tacos and I will just wait for you next time.

See we are a family and we squabble but it does not mean we quit on each other.  Susie you are too much of an important part of this site to even think of leaving us alone.
   
Epoman, you RUN this thing even though it is getting bigger everyday! Keep your cool.
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: angieskidney on February 06, 2007, 10:45:52 PM
Phew! I am glad! I nearly has a heart attack when I first saw this thread!  :cuddle; But I understand the idea of just leaving when you feel you hurt someone's feelings that mean something to you. I do that too but you are too important to leave and am glad you are not leaving now!  :yahoo;
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: sandman on February 06, 2007, 10:53:50 PM
I am relieved to know that goofynina is not leaving.  I know first hand, once you give epoman a few minutes to cool off, he can be reasoned with.  ;)  Lets not let that happen again.
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: okarol on February 06, 2007, 11:06:12 PM
 ??? Sheeesh. I step away from the computer for 2 hours to drive to Pasadena and all hell breaks loose!
Suzie - no one gets out of here alive. That goes for the rest of you too. We are in this together,
rain or shine, in sickness and in health. You can run but you can't hide.
Glad you worked it out. Now when are we going for tacos???  ;D
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Epoman on February 06, 2007, 11:16:20 PM
I am relieved to know that goofynina is not leaving.  I know first hand, once you give epoman a few minutes to cool off, he can be reasoned with.  ;)  Lets not let that happen again.

As I said Jeff, Susie left because SHE thought, she hurt MY feelings. I was not mad at her one bit. So I did not have to cool off or be reasoned with. This time I can't be blamed for being the asshole admin, I was not the one that over reacted. AND this situation had NOTHING to do with IHD or any of the sister-sites, this was a personal situation between Susie and I and had NOTHING to do with the site at all.

- Epoman
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: BigSky on February 07, 2007, 07:59:39 AM
Jeesh. 

Miss a day and ya miss alot around here. ;D

Glad all is well. :beer1;

Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: nextnoel on February 07, 2007, 10:05:05 AM
I'm SO glad things are copacetic again.  :clap; Besides - once you've shared Tito Tacos, you're stuck with each other for life, aren't you?  :cuddle;

Seriously, there are people who are truly integral to IHD, and Susie, you're one of them - we're not going to let you go anywhere!  (Well, maybe another trip to Tito Tacos, but that's all!)

Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Joe Paul on February 07, 2007, 10:44:27 AM
Dear IHD Family,
   Just when you thought it was safe to go back in the water,  here comes  Goofynina.. And you thought you could get rid of me that easy,,, PUHLEASE :P
I DONT THINK SO :P 
   It was all a misunderstanding.  Thank God Epoman is so patient and willing to explain things a little more so i can understand them and see the BIG picture.
  Thank you all for the kind words, its so nice to know that i am lovededed cuz Lord only knows how much i Love all of you...  :grouphug;
   
Somehow, I knew things would be OK  :thumbup;
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Ohio Buckeye on February 07, 2007, 12:28:25 PM
aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
a sigh of relief!
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: goofynina on February 07, 2007, 12:57:38 PM
 :'( (happy tears)  Do you see why i love you ALL??  Thank you all for understanding  :grouphug;
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: charee on February 07, 2007, 02:49:40 PM
I'm happy too that your not leaving got abit of a shock when i first read the post , Glad it all got worked out for you both....


Cheers
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: glitter on February 07, 2007, 02:58:36 PM
I am glad your not leaving too! :grouphug;
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: tubes on February 07, 2007, 05:23:46 PM
OMG, just about gave me a heart attack! 
Glad everything is ok.  :D

Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: shay_pcb on February 07, 2007, 07:00:33 PM
WOW! I haven't been on here in a couple of days bc we got a new comp that we've been trying to get set up and running on the network...You really do miss a lot in a short amount of time! I'm glad everything worked out!! I'm glad you're still here GoofyNina!!
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Nan on February 08, 2007, 12:16:58 PM
All I can say....is THANK GOD! :clap;
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Jill D. on February 08, 2007, 12:37:10 PM
IHD would not be the same without crazy goofynina! Susie, I have often wished I lived by you so we could party together - you are awesome!!!
 :cuddle; :cuddle; :cuddle; :cuddle;
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: paris on February 08, 2007, 03:16:25 PM
I was almost in tears after reading Goofynina's first post--- I have lost too many "sisters" to disagreements and couldn't bear losing another!!!!!   Familes fight, make up, hurts feelings but in the end, we are truly there for each other.   :grouphug;
Title: Re: An apology and a goodbye...
Post by: Sara on February 18, 2007, 05:05:55 PM
Thank God you're not gone.   :cuddle;  By the way, you may have missed the fine print where it says you're not ALLOWED to leave!   :2thumbsup;