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« on: April 14, 2008, 02:55:47 PM » |
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My son's marriage is prettu much over.
They've been married 5 yrs in June.
She is intrested in someone else.
They have a 3 yr. old son who loves them both dearly.
My son pretty much has him all the time now.
My heart is breaking for littlle Tyler and and my son.
I'm crying as I'm typing this.
Then to top it off my son called today and said he got laid off
from his job of 9 yrs.
Things can't get much worse for him.
Here I am not working, one-legged and not able to help a whole lot.
Seems like it is always something.
Please remember them in your prayers.
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« Reply #1 on: April 14, 2008, 03:16:34 PM » |
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I am here crying with you. This is not easy, by any means. My caring thoughts and prayers are with you and with him and Tyler. I am convinced of the strength of the human spirit. He will get through this. Your IHD family is with you all the way.  Someday, this will just be an unpleasant memory. |
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« Reply #2 on: April 14, 2008, 03:17:39 PM » |
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It's always tough when children are involved. |
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« Reply #3 on: April 14, 2008, 03:40:54 PM » |
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you love your son and grandson and they know it
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« Reply #4 on: April 14, 2008, 03:57:52 PM » |
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Thinking of you and your family.
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Pyelonephritis (began at 8 mos old)
Home haemo 1980-1985 (self-cannulated with 15 gauge sharps)
Cadaveric transplant 1985
New upper-arm fistula April 2008
Uldall-Cook catheter inserted May 2008
Haemo-dialysis, self care unit June 2008
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Living donor transplant (sister-in law Kathy) Feb. 2009
First failed kidney transplant removed Apr. 2009
Second trx doing great so far...all lab values in normal ranges
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« Reply #5 on: April 14, 2008, 04:55:40 PM » |
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My heart and prayers go to you, your boy and grandson.. and a big major to you.. |
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« Reply #6 on: April 14, 2008, 07:33:03 PM » |
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OB, I am so sorry for all of you. We are going through a similar situation. My son has been married for 13 years. They started dating in high school, stayed together even though they were in different colleges hundreds of miles apart. Married after college graduation. Just about a year ago, he told me he had been holding the marraige together for a long time but couldn't do it anymore. As a family, we had no idea there were problems. They never disagreed or gave any indication that things weren't anything but perfect. They have 3 children; 10, 4 and 2. The pain of watching your child go through the seperation process is very hard. We can no longer make things better for them. We can just be there to remind them how much they are loved. My heart hurts so much for the kids. They seem to be doing ok, but I worry the most about the 10 yr old. Reading your post, well, I just wanted to cry right along with you. And then to lose his job----it is really too much to handle at one time. I'll keep all of you in my prayers. You all deserve a break. It just seems like it is one thing after another. Take care. |
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« Reply #7 on: April 14, 2008, 07:53:32 PM » |
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How very very sad...
Sending good thoughts of strength and love to all of you.
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« Reply #8 on: April 14, 2008, 09:15:26 PM » |
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I am sad right there with ya. Maybe it is the night before the dawn? Hope so in his case. Pray it all turns around quickly. Especially with kids involved. |
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« Reply #9 on: April 14, 2008, 09:53:32 PM » |
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I am so sorry OB. And to Paris as well. All we hope for is for our kids to be happy. And it's especially heartbreaking with the grandchildren involved. Sending you hugs!  |
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« Reply #11 on: April 15, 2008, 07:55:48 AM » |
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I''m hoping and praying that you feel better this morning |
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« Reply #12 on: April 15, 2008, 07:58:57 AM » |
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Hoping today is a better day for you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers . NolaGail |
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Living donor has one more test to go (4-14-2008). Her left kidney could be mine in a few months. No surgery date yet.
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« Reply #13 on: April 15, 2008, 12:36:05 PM » |
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Thanks for all your kind comments.
I am sorry Paris that you too are going through this heartache.
It is hard to believe that this is a common occurence that goes on all the time.
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« Reply #14 on: April 15, 2008, 03:37:36 PM » |
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It is so hard when relationships break up. Love those grandkids. |
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lifenotonthelist.com Ivanova: "Old Egyptian blessing: May God stand between you and harm in all the empty places you must walk." Babylon 5 Remember your present situation is not your final destination. Take it one day, one hour, one minute, one second at a time. "If we don't find a way out of this soon, I'm gonna lose it. Lose it... It means go crazy, nuts, insane, bonzo, no longer in possession of ones faculties, three fries short of a Happy Meal, wacko!" Jack O'Neill - SG-1 |
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« Reply #15 on: April 15, 2008, 07:21:24 PM » |
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 I am sad right along with you. It seems way to many lives are touched by this tragic end to a marriage. Me included. I will keep your families in my prayers that the dawn will come soon. Earlinda
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« Reply #16 on: April 16, 2008, 09:58:53 AM » |
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« Reply #17 on: April 16, 2008, 01:08:56 PM » |
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OB and Paris, thinking of you both and your families. |
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« Reply #18 on: April 16, 2008, 09:14:27 PM » |
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« Reply #19 on: April 17, 2008, 04:36:19 AM » |
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Morning has broken; like the first morning  hope you have a sunny shiny day |
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« Reply #20 on: April 17, 2008, 04:54:59 AM » |
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OB, So sorry to read this. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers Anne |
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Sunny
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« Reply #21 on: April 17, 2008, 01:16:12 PM » |
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Ouch! That must really hurt.
Plus losing his job on top of it all.
I am wishing the best for you all. He is lucky to have a loving mother like you.
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