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« on: March 27, 2008, 03:13:04 PM »

tolerate  stupidity  more,  and  not to  worry  about  things  i  have  no  control  over.
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« Reply #1 on: March 27, 2008, 03:48:17 PM »

I would be more confident. I've been working on it for years and I'm pretty confident professionally now, but not socially.
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« Reply #2 on: March 27, 2008, 07:27:04 PM »

Be a little more patient with adult people.
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« Reply #3 on: March 27, 2008, 07:49:21 PM »

Less judgemental, more tolerable
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« Reply #4 on: March 27, 2008, 07:51:04 PM »

have better kidneys............ :Kit n Stik; :Kit n Stik; :Kit n Stik;
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« Reply #5 on: March 27, 2008, 08:55:29 PM »

I'd be able to pee. 
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« Reply #6 on: April 01, 2008, 06:49:59 PM »

Been thinking about this one for days.. but I always end up with..
I'm where I should be today..

Then again.. I could sit here and make a huge list.. like.. not having to cover my grey since the age of 30!.. phffwttt!
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« Reply #7 on: April 01, 2008, 06:59:09 PM »

Stop being a worry-wort.  I have problem with not knowing and I worry about it.  It gets so bad I make myself sick.  I'm such a control freak.
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« Reply #8 on: April 02, 2008, 03:20:15 AM »

I would be more patient.
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« Reply #9 on: April 02, 2008, 03:50:40 PM »

Confidence - self assurance.   I was raised my a very strick Mother.  If I got 4 A's and 1 B, the question was why did I get the B?  She always found one more thing I could have done better.  Loved her dearly, but she set extremely high standards (ones that my older sister met, I was always a "B" away).  I am strong in some areas because of her, but confidence was not instilled in me.
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« Reply #10 on: April 02, 2008, 05:24:23 PM »

Not be so judgmental. I don't voice it except to my husband, but I really don't like that part of my personality.
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« Reply #11 on: April 02, 2008, 06:57:18 PM »

I would be younger !! Not 46....maybe more like 20 !!!!! What a fun question !!!  :clap;
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« Reply #12 on: April 02, 2008, 07:07:14 PM »

I would be younger !! Not 46....maybe more like 20 !!!!! What a fun question !!! :clap;
I teach high school students, and occasionally one will ask me, "Don't you wish you were 18 again?"  Heavens, no!  I don't want to have to live through those days again -- not even if I knew then what I know now.  Of course...30 wouldn't be bad... :rofl;
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« Reply #13 on: April 02, 2008, 07:09:44 PM »

I would have burned a few less candles when I was younger.
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« Reply #14 on: April 04, 2008, 10:11:49 PM »

I would have lit the torches much less more candles when I was younger!
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« Reply #15 on: April 04, 2008, 11:19:54 PM »

More patience, less procrastination.
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« Reply #16 on: April 05, 2008, 02:36:15 PM »

Kitkatz - I am with you!  I would have had bonfires, not just candles!  If I only knew then what I know now -----
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« Reply #17 on: April 05, 2008, 03:43:40 PM »

I was burning the candles at both ends. Maybe that's why I'm here.   :beer1;  :beer1;
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« Reply #18 on: April 07, 2008, 07:42:19 AM »

I would be more patient and cool my temper.
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« Reply #19 on: April 07, 2008, 07:46:39 AM »

I would learn to be more trusting of myself and my instincts. Be more proactive in getting rid of (human) detritus!
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« Reply #20 on: April 07, 2008, 03:14:27 PM »

I would stop worrying all the time, it gives me a headache
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« Reply #21 on: April 09, 2008, 10:10:20 PM »

I wouldn't change anything. If you change things, then your not who you are now.. and your not going to have what you have in life now.. and I would not change anything in my life as I LOVE having my children, they are my world... my everything... and I am just blessed to be able to have had them, and spend as much time with them on this earth as I am allotted.
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« Reply #22 on: April 11, 2008, 10:44:06 AM »

I would be a braver person, with more self esteem. I'm shy and very self conscious.
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« Reply #23 on: April 11, 2008, 11:47:25 AM »

Paddlebear, you stole my answer :shy; 

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« Reply #24 on: April 11, 2008, 12:04:36 PM »

Paddlebear?! No, it's Paddbear, as in Paddington Bear!  ;D  My old dog was named Paddington Bear.
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