George easy to say , but bloody hard to do. It wasnt a case of 'attitude' Its a case of someone with no renal knowledge whatsoever telling me what is best for me!! You wouldnt let a car showroom receptionist tell you what you required to do your dialysis would you ? well this is only the same. I think sometimes you need to get angry ,if only to stand up for yourself and stop people walking all over you. I have tried the nice approach in the past and it doesnt get you anywhere. Im sick of being bullied and a doormat because of this illness. Just because i wont be pushed around doesnt make me a bad person, i am a better person , just one that stands up for herself !
I just had a thought, why not tell her there ARE 2 of you. You and Dia-lysis. Its is true, I mean you have to live with Dia-lysis until you either get a transplant, or get relief permenant - like, the "D" word. Let them know Dialysis IS your " care giver", without it (her) you would not live. Also let her know you need 2 separate rooms, as you Hate Dia-lysis but as I said, you cant live without it (her). Let her know too - Dia-lysis has lots of box's and 1 room is just not enough , your life is crowded enough with Dia-lysis as it is.( I hope you get a chuckle from this, maybe its just my bad humor)
I was thinking pee yellow....
RESULT ..RESULT ..RESULT !!